I know a lot of people out there abort their babies, because they are not ready. I am a woman who can't have a baby, and would be a wonderful Mom. It takes a very long time for adoption to kick in, trust me, I have tried, there is a waiting list, but also tons of children without homes; I don't understand. My life will never be complete without a child, and I am more then ready. If anyone is thinking of giving their child up for adoption, or if they are thinking about getting an abortion please email me at dixiexccoach05@aol.com. I know this questions seems a little out of place, but I am losing hope.
2007-01-05 03:56:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
God bless you in your search for a child. I hope you will get your wish come true. I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-01-05 05:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. That's what I was just telling a guy that posted this anti-abortion comment on the pregnancy site. There are people out here like you that want babies and can't have them yet there are 13 year olds walking around with the big bellies sucking their thumbs. It's really strange to me. I thought I would never have kids and I've been blessed with a 19 month old daughter and another daughter on the way in April. Now that I have them I realize that having kids did complete my life in a strange way. Good Luck and I hope you find the perfect child for you.
2007-01-05 13:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, while I agree with you on it takes some time...it doesn't take all that much time! Yes, we went for children who are older (3 -5 years), and their parental rights haven't been termintated...but if you think about it...
say 2 - 3 monts to get pregnant
+ 9 more for the pregnancy...
that's 11-12 months total time for a baby
our little one hasn't lived with us for a year yet and we are adopting him sometime this year! Call your state agency and look at kids who are ready to be adopted...just because they aren't babies doesn't mean they don't need the same love / affection / care that others need as well.
2007-01-05 12:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you find a child to call your own! My heart goes out to you! I have lost one by early M/C and another due to incompetent cervix at 21w3d. I also feel like Ive lost hope. I had to hold my 1lb1oz baby boy for 3 hours until he died. After going through that I'm not sure if I want to try again because I know I cant carry to full term unless I have surgery. Try to keep your head up and I hope your search ends soon!
Good luck!
2007-01-05 12:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you for offering an abortion alternative. It seems like many people who get abortions somehow don't realize that there are people out there like you...desperately wanting a baby!
2007-01-05 13:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by ck_scorpio40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really hope there is someone out there who reads this question and contacts you. Good luck. I am a teen mother and ots hard. i ahve friends who dont want the baby so illl let them know. My mom is also looking to adopt and it does take time. don't loose hope.
2007-01-05 12:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by esna a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bless you for offering an abortion alternative. It seems like many people who get abortions somehow don't realize that there are people out there like you...desperately wanting a baby!
2007-01-05 12:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by psugorillagirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trish didn't you read what I wrote the last post. No need to ask this again.
Have faith young woman and God will bless you with all things.
Patience and persistent prayer He is listening to you . Now it's your turn to show the Faith.
2007-01-05 12:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by mary3127 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normal for a girl to not want a baby...most people change their mind once they see that little bundle of joy but i kno that there is sum 1 out there who would want that baby !
2007-01-06 01:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://adopt.org/wednesdayschild/ Here's a good resource to start.
2007-01-05 12:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋