Im 15 and pregnant is that bad?

Question

Me and my boyfriend want to have a baby. But Im only 15 is that bad for me an my body?

Answer 1

Do you think it would be fair to the child if you had a baby at the age of 15. Your in school, you dont have your own place, your unable to get a nice job. Working at Mc Donalds wont cut it. Leaving off the state is not best for you and the child. You should full fill your dreams and finish school. Think about college, votech, or a trade school. You have a lot to live for and a child at your age will hold you back. It will be hard and tons of stress. Why not get a dog or a cat.


Were talking about a life. That will cry all night and need you 24/7! I hope you make the right choice. You dont need a baby right now. You and your boyfriend need to rethink this. Get on birth control, and use protectiong if you choose to have sex.


be smart be safe

Answer 2

You really need to think about this, it may not be my place to say this but he is goes anyway...
Think about getting a full time job, plus school, and you have to attend school in order to get a good job, you don't want to work in fast food your entire life, you have to get at least a high school diploma, and while in high school with a child you need a job because babies are very expensive and needy. Did you know diapers
are about $8.00 for a small pack that may last you 4 days? You will need a lot of money, doctors bills, dentist will come sooner then you think, you will have to get up all hours of the
nights, and still have school the next day. Don't
you want to have fun being 15? You can do that, and being 15 is a lot of fun, if you don't have a child. You really need to research more my dear, and find out what 's best for you. The baby needs a Mom, not a kid, no offense. Just wait it out, it will be worth it, and having a baby at 15 years old is never good for any 15 year
old's body, and if you really are thinking about having a child right now, you really need to stop thinking about yourself, and how you look, and think about the baby, because that is all that matters!

Answer 3

Irresponsible is more the word that comes to mind. This guy has already knocked up two other girls and then, I'm assuming, dumped them. Now he's got you pregnant. Now you are worried about it. What sould you do? Well that's a difficult question to answer. What most people would do is abortion. It's not something everyone agrees with but (as much as I hate to say it) it the simplest way out. Now without trying to force my opinion on others, I would like to point out that there are other options. Adoption is always a good choice for young mothers that aren't sure if they are ready to be a mom. It gives the child the chance at life, which is something that everyone deserves. The other option would be to raise the child yourself. Are you ready? Would it even be possible? Don't tell me it can't be done. I've got friends that I have watched pull it off. Her daugther is now two and they are beautiful together. What ever you decide to to, I truly do wish you the best of luck in making you choice. Also, in the event that you do decide to go through with it... Congradulations.

Answer 4

The younger you are the worse pregnancy is on your body. Let's say you don't take your prenatal vitamins, well your baby will strip your body of all its vitamins to compensate for what he's not getting, leaving your body in shambles. Your boyfriend may want you to have a baby and you may want one but let me tell you it's not easy. Being pregnant is a wonderful feeling but labor isn't a cakewalk. Neither is the 1am feedings or the movie you want to go see but can't or the jeans you used to be able wear. The belly baring tops you won't dare put on because of your stretch marks.

I was 19 when I had my now 19 month old daughter and me and her dad thought we had everything together. But everyday we're learning something new and different. Like what this rash means or how high a fever needs to be before we take her to the ER. I don't get to go out with my friends. I can't go to the movies. I work 9-5, go to school 6-8, and come home to my baby. When I get home it's homework, dinner time, baby time, bath time for her and then it's bed time. I get to sleep about 11 or 12 then get up at 7 to do it all again. And don't think that it gets any easier when they're older. I'm expecting my second and she's gotten worse because now she gets into everything. So think about it before you get pregnant.

LIVE YOUR LIFE. GO TO COLLEGE. GET MARRIED AND THEN HAVE A BABY BECAUSE THEN HE'LL BE YOUR HUSBAND AND HE'LL BE OBLIGATED TO HELP YOU. HE MAY SAY HE LOVES YOU NOW BUT WAIT UNTIL YOU PUT ON THE BABY WEIGHT AND YOU GIVE BIRTH.

Answer 5

First off how old is your boyfriend? Also If you are in school I HIGHLY suggest continueing, and another thing is how will it effect the baby? What kind of life will the baby have? And plus is it really most responsible to wait to have the baby, and if you think you're going to be with your boyfriend forever then you might want to rethink that. This woman from the pregnency center told us that only about 5% to 10% of highschool relationships last untill marriage. I hope this might make you think more about your desicion and I also hope you haven't been pressured into this. Best of wishes.

Answer 6

im 15 too and i also want a baby. but i know that it is not the right time. so now i wont be able to have a baby until i am 19. i just got depo shot this morning. so me and my boyfriend are going to wait until then. also it depends on how big you are. i am only 4 10 and 100 pounds. i would have to gain 20 pounds to be able to carry a baby. i know you would love nto have someone to care for, but think about it. you wouldn't be able to go out with your boyfriend alone or your friends any more. no more parties. you are gonna have to buy diapers, and baby clothes. bring your baby to doctors appointments. no more sleeping in all day and staying up all night. having to get up in the middle of the night to take care of a screaming infant. all of the s hit that you will be getting from people for having a child at a young age. but if you are really ready for it then go ahead. i just want you to think about it.

Answer 7

Oh no girl,you are way too young to have a baby,you and your baoyfriend are not even mature enough for a baby,you are both kids!!Babies having babies!!!That maybe can be bad for your body....think about it,is alot of responsibilities,get an education and grow up first instead of thinking of having babies,is little stupid kids like you that bring out the attitude in me!!!

Answer 8

are you pregnant or do you want to be?
its not too bad for your body but is it right for you at that age? i would have waited if i had the choice but where i come from my cousin is 13 and 8 months gone with no harm, Meany girls have children before they are 15
i am now 16 and i have a child from a arranged relationship and my second soon I'm almost 9 months! i love her and she is very special and i don't regret it at all.
have you actually had sex yet? or is this just wondering? i was 14 when i first did and it was incredibly painful and i bled a lot. also giving birth was so painful amazing though
are you sure the guy your with will stay with you and support you i was very lucky in that my husband is lovely but he is older then me. i had a lot of growing up to do

if your sure go for it its so amazing and really changes your life i love my child and husband and wouldn't swap them for the world i cant wait for little aaliyah!
Gd luck and best wishes love alya xxx

Answer 9

BAD!I thought I was at 15,thankfully I wasn't.I was at 18.I love my daughter but I missed out on alot of my life, as will you having a kid, being a kid.Now she is 13 and i am very open with her about what NOT to do.Please consider adoption.As for your body,its resilient.

Answer 10

Of course it is? The fact that you asked that question proves everything... If you had to ask, do you think it is a good idea? Baby's cost over $2,000 a year and you aren't even old enough to have a job.