2007-01-05 03:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by ... 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I blame it on dumb luck or genetics
2007-01-05 05:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we think that since we love the person we can say anything we want to them and they'll just accept it and everything will be okay. but that is clearly not the way it is. The people you love take things way more personally than if you just said it to a friend.
also with the ones you love you think you can never lose them...reality is if you say enough hurtful things they'll be gone...no matter how much they love you a person can only take so many hurtings before they've had enough...
2007-01-05 11:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks when we do it, but I think a lot of it has to do with boundaries, and we try to see how far we can cross them before we can't go back, and we tend to hurt the people we love the most in the process of finding those boundaries.
2007-01-05 11:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by Not my problem 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because we believe that they will forgive us of anything.We are taught from an early age that love means forgiveness. Our families are the perfect example cause no matter what you do they are always there loving you and supporting you.And we just believe that if someone loves us like we think they do that they too will forgive us of anything.
2007-01-05 11:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be because the ones that love you always forgive and let you back in... If you are hurtung the ones you love try something new and ways not too, so you will be happy too...
2007-01-05 11:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by fun11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't answer that. I'm still doing it. And in the process i'm hurting myself. But my mind keeps telling me it's okay as long as they hurt. It's kinda crazy.
2007-01-05 11:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complacency.
2007-01-05 11:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned over the years to stop doing that.
2007-01-05 11:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly what you mean... its the people close to me that get hurt the most. i think we try to hard so that wreks the relationship.
2007-01-05 11:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by emo girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're the only ones we know who will forgive us.
2007-01-05 11:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we all have high expectations of each other and sometimes we dont meet those.
2007-01-05 11:31:47 · answer #11 · answered by alig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋