I have been having sex with a married women she keep asking me to come and meet her husband who she is still having sex with but has hinted she whould like to have 2 guys is this heading to a 3 some need some advice urgent she is 28 i am 30 husband is also 30 anybody been there
2007-01-05 03:02:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have never *been there*, but if it's your thing, and their thing....then go for it. Just make sure that you keep your emotions in tact...this is a purely sexual thing. I am assuming hubby already know 's that she is messing around, so they probably have an open marriage. I would suggest that you all meet at a hotel, and have a drink in the bar, get to know each other a bit...and make sure that he is cool with everything...then maybe have your experience in a hotel room, so that nobody is on home turf. Good luck and have fun lol
2007-01-05 03:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by catywhumpass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all is cool and you are up for it then go for it. Just be careful use protection would not want you to get herpes or anything like that which can be transmitted orally as well as sexually. Also another thing to consider is this that most swingers will only want you for a short time. It does not last because swingers have a rule to not get too involved with the third person. Its bad etiquette. Most guys only dream of having a threesome with two women and a lot of women would want two men. Its a fantasy is all it is. Its great to have them but the fun only lasts for a short while. I know i was a swinger and had fun at it too but i also got tired of it too.
2007-01-05 11:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by firey_spirit_66 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's asking you to come and meet her husband, there is a chance her husband could be bi, and they both want a threesome. There are quite a bit of open marriages out there . . .it's whatever you are comfortable with. Use Protection. Don't believe for a second that you are the only person they have "invited over" . . .
2007-01-05 11:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Who Knew! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it , he could kill you!!
this happened to someone i worked with (his brother actually ) was having an affair with a married woman . the husband found out and arranged a meeting at a hotel for all three .when he got there , only the husband was there and they went up to his room where husband stabbed this guy to death12 times . he then admitted to it and only got 2 years inside.
2007-01-05 11:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by woodchip1960 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a completely bad idea!i can swear that the other guy will be way pissed off.most guys feel the need to be the only one in a relationship.think critically,(even if it works out)if the girl is ok with cheating on her current husband i dont think she would be ashamed to cheat again ,ON YOU!!better get out now.
2007-01-07 22:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and I would just caution you to be careful. That it might cause weird jealousies between her and her husband and make things end between the 2 of you.
But then again, if they have been doing this for a while, it could just be good fun.
2007-01-05 11:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I've been there. She's up for it. Are you? Is her Husband? If they are into swinging then it could be fun - AS LONG AS YOU ALL AGREE WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOUR before you do get down and dirty, together.
2007-01-05 12:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she wants a threesome, and yes do it. All women want to be in a sandwich, one in the rear and one in the front. Me and my wife have threesomes, two girls one guy or two guys and one girl. It dont matter its all goooooooddddd.
2007-01-06 04:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good will come of it, It will all go **** up! (pardon the pun) Walk away now, while you still have yr self respect
2007-01-05 11:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aarrgh! Run like the wind! You'll end up in a tremendously sticky (fnaar fnaar) situation if you get involved in this sort of thing.
Seriously!
2007-01-05 11:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋