i have is major crush on my best friend, Liz since we met 4 years ago... at first i thought the feeling would go away but it couldn't go away..sometime i will have this feeling that she maybe feel the same like me
2007-01-05 02:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just let her know how you feel and get it over with. If she feels the same it will work out. Just don't put it off for the rest of your life. Just take her out one night or day and let her know how you feel and you are willing to risk the loss of her friendship if she does not feel the same way. The best lovers/significant others are usually former friends. Good luck!
2007-01-05 03:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd hold off until she gives you some kind of idea that she may be interested. Many friendships can be damaged like that.
Ask yourself, would you rather have her as a friend or take a chance and possibly lose her. Only you can answer that.
2007-01-05 10:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a lesbian also? If so, you should just have a direct conversation and ask her if she'd like to go on a date.
If she's not a lesbian, then you need to be much more careful. She could be bisexual, but if she's straight, it will make the friendship feel awkward to her. (It shouldn't, but it will.)
2007-01-05 11:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to get her by herself and break it down to her how you really feel about her , cause youll never know what might happen.
2007-01-05 11:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by SKITTLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into a light conversation about woman /woman relationships and from there you should know where to go
2007-01-05 11:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dare to take risk ? U go gal !
2007-01-05 11:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by yusdz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not simply talk about it with her, and find out her reaction--and go from there, either way...
2007-01-05 10:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sue_Desdemona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋