I have a GREAT friend (I don't know what I would do with out her) and she lives close to us. She is married and has one son who is almost 2. I got married a over a year ago and now I am 13 weeks pregnant. I have asked her all sorts of baby questions, and advice on what is normal. the other day she thought she was pregnant, but turns out she isn't. Her husband wants to wait to have another until they are both out of college.
I would love to be pregnant together...that would be awesome. But just don't want my baby talk to make her rush into anything she and her husband aren't ready for. Any advice?
2007-01-05 02:46:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell her how you feel if she asks your opinion. don't just give your two cents because it could hurt her feelings. my good friend was pregnant before me and then i found out i was pregnant too. i had my daughter in june 2005 and she had hers in october 2005. then she told me in may of 2006 that she was pregnant again and i was kinda jealous because we were so close the first time around. so when i found out in august that i was pregnant i was happy. she had her son in december and i'm having my daughter in april. if it's meant to happen for her and her husband it will.
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2016-10-30 01:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a talk with her and explain exactly what you just said, tell her that you want to share everything about your pregnancy with her but your hesitate because you don't want to make her rush into having another baby with the advice and conversation about babies. That you care for her deeply and that you want the best for her, but maybe making another baby right now isn't best for her because you feel she should wait until they finish college and her husband is ready for another one.
2007-01-05 02:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry hun, my sister is preganant and for the first few weeks i was devostatly jelous to the point of getting pregnant again myself, then when i sat down and thought about it properly, i already have a beautiful little girl and if i have another one its gonna be becoz it happens that way, not just to keep up with someone else! Dont fret, enjoy your pregnancy! And good luck, hope you have a very happy healthy baby tc xx
2007-01-05 02:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by TP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just leave this one alone? Her getting pregnant is between her and her husband. They will decide whats best. Your baby talk might influence her to want another baby sooner, but in the end its their decision.
I dont think you should stop talking about it or back away. Let them worry about it, and you should bask in all your baby-gloriness!!! :)
Congrats on 13 weeks!
2007-01-05 02:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is very enthusiastic about the whole"pregnancy" thing. But as i can assume, she is very young. Try to talk to her and explain that one baby is enough for now,babies it's not sth that you rash into.Explain that you ask her all these questions just to help you deal with pregnancy, nth more! If she won't listen to ya',maybe you should "leave it". In the end, it's sth between the couple.
2007-01-05 02:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by j.h. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to back away from her while you are going through your pregnancy, I mean still talk with her over the phone, but no visual contact, she is having a moment right now. Go to someone else with your baby questions.
2007-01-05 02:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the ultimate expression of love between friends. I would be extremely flattered that she thinks in this way.
2007-01-05 02:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a sympathetic thing. It's normal and will pass.
2007-01-05 02:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
recommend a firtility doctor to ensure things are done on time.
2007-01-05 02:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Nate H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋