Well i have been going out with this guy for 4 years when we got together I was in eighth grade and he was a junior in high school. Well he cheated befor e but this time I guess Its's different because it's my cousin should I be mad at him and her ? We have a 2 year old daughter together should I stay with him or just take my child and leave because i'm a senior in high school and I can make it without him i have a good job what should I do HELP ME PLEASE?
2007-01-05 02:46:09 · 9 answers · asked by ladiey5prime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you gave him a second chance and I'm sorry to say it but once a cheater always a cheater. I think he has proved that to you. I am also a firm believer that if you cheat on your spouse or lover who you have children with then you cheated on your children as well. And of all things your own cousin. If he will stoop that low how low will he go. Think of it this way, every time he does someone and then you he is sharing a part of that person with you. Body fluids travel from one to another. And both give as well as recieve. Your young and you still have a chance at a better life with a better guy even if you do have a child. And you can even do college if you want it is VERY possible. Dont let anyone tell you that. I had a friend who got pregnat her first year of college and still finished with a degree. YOU CAN DO IT ON YOUR OWN. And as far as you rcousin shes not worth your breath and let her know that. Dont yell or fight her. You have bigger things in life coming your way than they do obviously. Take care of whats important, and that is you and that baby.
2007-01-05 02:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Katy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He's a cheater, and a repeat offender at that. Your cousin is obviously not a friend either. Get them both as much out of your life as possible under the circumstances. Find someone who will treat you and your child with respect. This man does not. Leave right now before he does this to you again. Learn from the past, don't ignore it.
2007-01-05 10:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question you need a lot more help than you can get here.Dump him and your cousin they both knew what they were doing. Do what is best for you and your child,and make a life without these 2 people in it.Good Luck.
2007-01-05 10:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by zzum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has cheated once before and now again with your cousin, my dad use to say a leopard never changes his spots and by the sound of it he has not, if i was you i would dump him and take your kid and get on with your life with out them both,and has for your cousin that's your family what sort of family is she ,hold your head up high and find a new life Else where good luck
2007-01-05 10:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it is time for you and your child to go. Shame on the boyfriend and double shame on your cousin. You don't need either one of them in your life. Move out and move on. Congratulations, for staying in school!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 11:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and ignore her........
hes a cheater and she obviously dnt care
nd so wot if he told her ye broke up, ye hav a daughter 2gether she shud hav known nd newayz its against rulz 4 ne1 dats close to you 2 go on with your ex boyfriend.
2007-01-05 10:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by sexyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya should of left him since da first time he cheated on u .. he is a cheater and will be always so .. just beta if you leave him behind and start a new life with your daughter ...........
2007-01-05 10:51:58 · answer #7 · answered by Luxor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, please leave him. He's obviously not going to stop cheating. And your cousin?? What a slap in the face. Who's going to be next, your mother?? Leave that bast**d!!!!
2007-01-05 10:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should be mad at him, because you dont know if he lied and told her that you were broken up,
you should dump him, because your trust in him will be shot
2007-01-05 10:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋