my friends have been going off with other ppl without talking to me and they wont tell me anything anymore im sure i havent done anything to make them do this but im not sure y they are doing this and my best friend has been blanking me for a few weeks now wat should i do?
plz help me *hugz*
2007-01-05 02:42:39 · 18 answers · asked by SimpleImmortality 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my best friend is the only person hu actually helps me through life
2007-01-05 02:49:18 · update #1
my best friend is a guy
2007-01-05 02:51:39 · update #2
Sometimes friends get caught up in their own lives and some friends get left behind. They usually don't do this on purpose and sometimes don't even realize what is happening. The best thing to do is talk to them about it and let them know u feel left out and u miss hanging out with them, and if u have done something to upset them u want to know. Good friends will always understand this and come around, as far as the rest let them move on because they obviously werent a true friend to begin with.
2007-01-05 02:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me on several occasions, i also never knew the reason. One of my closest friends stopped talking to me, she was always abit slack at keeping plans and phoning so it was one sided on my part but i asked her what was going on and she said she'd just been busy and was neglecting everyone. Things got better for a short time and now they are back to no contact again, I asked her 'if we were friends and she said dont take it personally i've just changed priorities' (baby) but it started way before then. She never sent me a b'day card and we share a b'day so she can't have forgotten. When it gets to the point of your not getting answer its time to make new friends and forget them, its not worth your time. Its hard because you'll still want her friendship but if your unhappy and she doesnt even care enough to fix it, then move on x hugz back x
2007-01-05 02:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life has It's ups and downs you know, that's why we must be brave when we face it's challenges, I can understand your feelings and how much you are hurt, and I have no excuse to your friends, but may be some jealous friend did this, no one can live alone everybody needs friends but your friend doesn't need you anymore then you too. find others be happy, and don't talk to them "your present friends" until they have a good explanation.
2007-01-05 02:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by sahar el2amar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probally get this alot, but im going threw the same exact thing.The "Problem"is that your friends have changed. Ive learned that it is really nothing anybody can help.It just happens.You dont have to change yourself to get your friends to like you.Im sure your going through tons of emotionalpain right now,But I promise it will get better. Maybe not as good as you’d like it to be…..but better. It will take time. I suck at giving advice, but I hope I helped alittle.
2007-01-05 03:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by xemoxheartx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all and sundry gets the blues now and then. those thoughts would be particularly good throughout circumstances of rigidity or loss. it is a classic part of existence. After a whilst, the darkness lifts and issues start to experience relaxing lower back. now and lower back, in spite of the undeniable fact that, the sadness or loneliness persists, or gets worse, in spite of all tries to "snap out of it." Tears or anger come easily and the least perplexing projects look perplexing. those are merely the hollow paragraphs for teen melancholy. stick to the hyperlinks to verify the finished articles. Take care.
2016-10-06 11:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is confront people, you may find there is one person that has been poisoning all the others with tales or lies, but there is nothing to be gained by moaping, you need to go on the offencive and ask people, starting with your so-called best friend.
2007-01-05 02:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to talk to them individually not as a whole group. You could try phoning them and sorting things out, find out why they are doing this.
2007-01-05 05:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Stun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she has aproblem with you - or uf you have done something to bother her - if you have then you can get it it all out in the open - sounds to me like there just being silly and need to grow up - girls can be funny sometimes maybe you shpuld try and make some new friends as well - good luck hun
2007-01-05 02:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whats going on! And if he wont gice you a acceptable answer for their behaviour forget about them and make some real friends, as hard as it maybe there is no point being friends with people that are going to treat you like that.
2007-01-06 01:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes "friends" just outgrow each other. They find new friends..........Go to your friend and ask why? That is the only way to resolve the pain you feel! It is also the only way you can move on.
I'm sending a GREAT BIG GRANNY HUG!
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-01-05 02:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋