Is it normal for MARRIED MEN to go to STRIP CLUBS?

Question

AND HAVE SEX W/ STRIPPERS, since it is better than a husband having serious relationship w/ a regular girl?

Answer 1

I have been married for 18 years and havent been to a strip club in a very long time, over 16 years. I just don't see the need for it, cost way to much either for the drinks and then of course the tips.

Liven things up at home and make him not want to go, and remember what happens in the bedroom stays there, it doesnt make you bad if you strip for him and think of the savings that could be spent on you.

Answer 2

Married men visiting strip clubs is quite common. Don't know what you mean by having sex is. Usually, they do get a lap dance or two which is kinda sex but isn't exactly sexual intercourse. If you are referring to sex as sexual intercourse, then no, it certainly isn't normal.

Yes, relatively speaking, it may sound better to know that he's only involved physically than emotionally serious with someone else. But that consolation isn't going to help you much.

First, there's some serious relationship issues you guys are having or he just isn't being honest with you about how he sees your relationship. That's like the iceberg hidden under the ocean seems like.

Secondly, if he's doing it once in a while - may be a couple of times a year - going to strip clubs, it's okay. If he's frequenting, there's a cause of concern.

And lastly, you have to be extra careful now because you don't exactly know who he's sleeping with. I hate to generalize but many strippers can be sexually active with a lot of other people too and that's pretty obvious.

Don't accept it. Make sure you have a conversation with him about how you feel. You don't have to "settle" for anything. You don't want you and your children to suffer as a consequence of his indiscretions. Good luck.

Answer 3

Despite popular opinion, it is NOT normal for a married man to go to strip clubs. It is not normal for ANY man to go to a strip club. The kind of man that would go to a place like that is not looking for a committed relationship, but to live out a selfish fantasy that only fulfills his physical needs. There is no love, no honor, and especially no fidelity for the woman who waits at home for this man. It defies the logic behind getting married in the first place. Most people get married because they want stability and are committed to a life-long partnership with ONE person, or otherwise stay single and continue dating. If you are married and you look at another person, opposite sex or not, in a manner of desire and lust, it is adultery. You do not have to choose the lesser of the two evils. What's wrong is wrong and you don't need to accept that. You may forgive the person, just not the behavior. Good luck!

Answer 4

IT'S ABNORMAL TO HAVE SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE PERIOD! YOUR HUSBAND HAS SOME REAL PROBLEMS AND NEEDS SOME HELP IF THIS IS WHAT'S GOING ON.

Married men have gone to strip clubs with the guys. The wives can easily stop that by stripping for her husband. The need to go to a club should be eliminated. A husband can watch, touch and bone his own private stripper wife in their own home. They can even install a stripper pole.

Answer 5

I guess married guys go to strip clubs, whatever. I don't like it, and I would really be disappointed if my husband did it. But...

Having sex with strippers is probably worse than with a regular woman because he could possibly contract something, even possibly give it to you. If he's cheating like that, you can't trust him. It's time to leave.

Answer 6

Well its normal to go to a strip club. But not to have sex with strippers, i go to strip clubs from time to time and most of the time its married man, but they dont have sex with strippers. Maybe a happy ending, lol.

Answer 7

Depends on how happy and open you guys are in your marriage.

Do you satisfy him and make him feel really special? If not, and he's going to strip clubs, then it's time for you to change.

If he's just wants to look at hot bodies dancing all around because he doesn't get that at home, well either get in shape and give him sexy dances, or let him go once in a while. Now if you have a hot body yourself and already do strip teases for him, then he's probably got a craze for lots more naked women so yeah, check into that.

Now, if you guys are cool with each other and have the trust thing set, let him go! I wouldn't mind my husband going once in a while, UNLESS it turns him into a nasty jerk which could happen.. never know

Answer 8

I'll try and make this easy for you. Go with him to the Strip Club and if he gets horny then you'll be there to receve the benefit and if ur there he won't be screwing a stripper, will he? Go with an open mind and you may find that you enjoy watching as well, my wife has gone with me and she loves watching the other men ogle the strippers.

Answer 9

I think, that if a man has a descent looking woman, what's the point and going to a strip club? You cant touch! So the sex part is a no! Go home and strip for your man, and have him give YOU some money! That's the way you do it! Make it worth his while!

Answer 10

Going to clubs, yes, normal. Sex with strippers is cheating and not better than a serious relationship with another girl. Looking is one thing, touching is another...