Question Details: see now,.....i think we n this guy were just having more than a friendship n now my exams are approaching i think he is just not fit there...i mean....now i wanna break it....coz i think i have contemplated enough and believe me although i know ihave taken thid decission too late still,...look,,,its my life n i dont want it spoilt...i really wanna move on n leave the past time which i wasted over him....plz help me a few words of encourgement can sometimes do wonders...please...if u can....
2007-01-05 02:10:33 · 8 answers · asked by globe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
see ppl.....i have decided he if just not fit n i wanna break it--- the frinship i mean.....so thats that.....but u know i am feeling bad....i just wanted a few words to grow out of it n start n make up for the time which i have lost on him
2007-01-05 02:22:54 · update #1
You need to do more study of the english language and maybe some typing classes also.......
But seriously....Perk up....Life is about yourself...You should make room for other people also...but consider yourself the main priority......he will.
2007-01-05 02:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Schafferius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never to late to repent and to start over. That is what we are encouraged to do all our lives, to repent, to die to ourselves, to die to our selfish world and start over.
Catholics have confession and it works wonders, after confessing your sins, you recieve the forgiveness and blessing from the Priest, who is in proxy for God, you feel you can start all over again. You feel up-lifted, your heart at peace and good all the way down to your toes. You can do the same thing if you are not Catholic.. go to your room, shut the door and tell the Lord what you have done and what you wish to do now in your life, how you wish to change and need his help and strength to go on.. Yes, God knows all and knows what you have done, but to repent you need to voice it to Him. God will not punish you or dictate to you.. He waits for your repentence and for you wanting to make a new start. Pray also for your friend and his life also. Pray that the time you should have been studing will not go to waste and will become now for the future a stepping stone in your life.. that good come from it. From your experience You can now teach others from your mistake and be more compassionate towards others who find themselves in similar situations. You can do it, just do not give up..
If you will not make your exams, so be it, others have had the same thing happen to them, just do not give up and continue with your studies. Pray and offer up all your good intentions if you achieve success.. I will pray for you too.
Good Bless and keep on going, I believe you have had a rich enlightenment and God will not let you done.. God Bless.
2007-01-05 02:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Postpone any decisions until after the pressure of your exams.
Once those are over be honest and tell him the truth. You can do it! Calm down and concentrate on your schoolwork. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 02:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a smart girl and your priorities are in the right place. Your doing what is best for you, and thats great
2007-01-05 02:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's barely legible, but i can almost make out you're trying to break up with a guy???
just tell him it's over and move on with your life.
as for the feeling bad part, we've all made bad mistakes. you're not alone.
2007-01-05 02:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by evoleye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is wonderful. Enjoy it to the fullest. Don't worry aboutt past.
2007-01-05 02:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure exactly what you want encouragement for??? ditch the guy...it sounds like you have decided to! and ummmm...study?
good luck with whatever!
2007-01-05 02:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT ARE YOU SAYING....
2007-01-05 02:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by a cutie n va 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋