okay i used to like this guy SOOO much but now omg i hate him. he went on his brothers site on myspace and started calling me a whore and telling me to go f*ck myself.. i dont know what to do. should i tell him off.. WHAT . i dont know how to deal with all this sh*t.. plz anything helps
2007-01-05 02:01:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Glad you USED to like this guy..what a mean-spirited dork he is! The best revenge is to smile, and not let what others say about you, bother you. You sound young, so I'm guessing this will kinda tough for a young person to do....but believe me, stoking the flames of the fire this guy has started will only make things worse...the last thing you should ever do is acknowledge someone like that....your REAL friends will know what kind of a person you really are....let this roll off you like "water off a ducks back"...
Remember, Living well is the best revenge...and smile, it makes people wonder what you've been up to!
2007-01-05 02:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report him to some MySpace police. Certainly MySpace has such a thing, just like here on Yahoo. He is slandering you in public. Don't stand for that type of behavior. Calling him will only let him know he is getting a reaction from you. If you do call him, tell him if he doesn't retract what he wrote, you will contact an attorney. Scare the beJesus out of him sweetie.
2007-01-05 10:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a b/f that was like that. I found it was best to ignore his little attempts of publicly humiliating me. Any comments I made only seemed to make him work that much harder at it. This guy isn't really accomplishing his goal, all he's doing is proving what an a** he is. Grit your teeth and try to ignore his childish behavior and do not lower yourself by stooping to his level.
2007-01-05 10:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by color me blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write him off and be glad you learned he is a phony before you were too attached. It would help to ponder why he suddenly started the public viciousness instead of going to you privately with is concerns. Very immature.
2007-01-05 10:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road. Ignore them. When little kids (by age or maturity level) are ignored, in time they go elsewhere for attention.
2007-01-05 10:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet is to ignore him completely. If he sees that his actions are having an effect on you then he'll keep doing them. If he thinks you're not bothered in the slightest then he'll get bored and stop.
2007-01-05 10:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him off and change your myspace ID.
better yet find a new site instead of myspace.
2007-01-05 10:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by evoleye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you THAT much, be upfront with him, tell him you saw what he wrote and you didnt appreciate it, but best bet would be to ignore it, and move on with your life. It's stupid drama that you most likely wont even remember later in life. Don't dwell on it.
2007-01-05 10:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by wellwtfok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore this----you can be a better person than him--he sounds
like a brat...Show him you can go on with life but NOT by words.
ACTIONS speak louder than words
2007-01-05 10:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by skw60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if it were me i'd get all up in his face but thats me i hate people telling me that but if he calls you B*tch then say ya i'm number one it usally startles them!!!LOL!!!
2007-01-05 10:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋