serious. if we were kissing or something and i would ej-culate. i feel like i'm going to be sick cause my body, REALLY wants to. we're not going to have s-x cause I don't want to get her pregnant or anything. what do i do!?
don't suggest sex! seriously. i'm going to wait anyway. also, condoms don't always work, so i'm not takin the chance. do you think i'll grow out of it, my sex drive is probbaly it it's highest now....right?
we're bot h17.
2007-01-05 01:46:00 · 17 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Good on you for waiting, and everything you are experiencing is really normal. You are coping with a strong, healthy, horny young body, that's all. You won't make yourself sick if you don't have sex, even if it feels that way.
What you do about it depends on what both of you feel comfortable with. You can masturbate each other to orgasm, dry hump through clothing or have oral sex. It's normal to ejaculate in your pants while kissing at your age.
If you think that will only lead to more sexual thoughts and activities, then you will have to pull back a bit and stick to self-pleasure.
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2016-12-15 16:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Godo for you I say! My only suggestion would be to masturbate BEFORE you go see her. Also-if you stop the heavy petting that will helps matters too.
You are right though--your sex drive is as it's highest. But you sound like you are in control of your emotions and that's good. If all 17 year olds could be as self aware as you, this could be a better world.
2007-01-05 04:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, Bravo for waiting!
Yes, this is normal, yes it will get better, but maybe not for some time. I'm female, so I don't really "get it", but if you're firmly convicted to wait, your own hands are your best friend. Masturbation is normal, won't cause pimples or blindness or hairy palms or any other urban legends you may have heard.
If it's not against your convictions (you don't mention if waiting is like a religious thing or something, or if it just because you recognize that it's the only 100% sure birth control) you two might want to experiment with oral sex.
2007-01-05 01:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by tabithap 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Despite condom is the most safe contraceptive tool, I'm not affirming that persuading you to have sex at any cost!
Evidently you aren't ready yet while she won't be so horny asking you for that.
It's normal you feel to explode on such situations!
Unluckily there are only two solutions for you.
1- You can ejaculate in the underwear, as well as other boys do;
2- Try alternative sexual acts, as oral / anal one or getting masturbated by her (since your main fear is to get her pregnant!)
Anyway, I just think that sooner or later you however would get sex! So, why don't start now?!
2007-01-05 04:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is so smart of you to not want to have sex. You're probably the only responsible one here. You will grow out of it but until then you just have to play with yourself.
2007-01-05 06:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by sunkissedlove<3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude this is gonna be the best advice u get right all....all high schoolers know bout this and its....Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand
2007-01-07 10:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by jdizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for waiting! As far as becoming so excited, try 'releasing' yourself before you see your girlfriend. It might take some of the tension off. And yes, your hormones are at an outrageously high level at this time in your life. I'm glad you've decided to wait though. Best of luck!
2007-01-05 01:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yes your sex drive is the highest now. you will just have to wait it out. and your right condoms don't always work but they will keep you safe. i have experience in this subject because I've been having sex for over 5 years and i just turned 18 this year (2007). and i haven't had any kids so condoms do work. also have you ever thought about if you don't use protection when you think you are about to *** JUST PULL OUT!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-05 01:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
well masturbate or have her help you with that if that is an options, otherwise before you see her take care of yourself and it should help. My husband told me of story in his teenage hood. Radar's wife
2007-01-05 04:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Radar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋