this guy has been chasing me for ages.
We have met up a few times and kissed.
after we have met up, he doesnt contact me and he ignores all my messages. why is this???
months later, hes back on the scene and the same thing happens again.
he does want to take things futher sexually.
hes 29 and single.
2007-01-05 01:40:21 · 25 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's trying to make you desperate, so you will sleep with him to keep him.
I'd run as far as I could in the opposite direction, as fast as i could.
2007-01-05 01:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Claire M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a childish idiot.
He is playing games. Once he gets what he wants he runs. If he sleeps with you, you probably won't see him for a year, until he tracks you down and wants sex again.
Forget about this guy. Next time he comes to you asking for a kiss or sex, tell him you are not interested. Lie and say you have a boyfriend if that makes it easier for you.
2007-01-05 09:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to talk to someone exactly like that. He would disappear and then reappear after some weeks saying how much he loved me and wanted to see me...I think they are just bored and need someone to play around with or something. I don't think they are really serious about what they say. If he really liked you then he would come around ALL the time and NEVER ignore you.
2007-01-05 09:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit making out w/ him. Quit leaving him messages. Ignore him when you see him somewhere. If he approaches you, tell him for f-off. If he's interested, he'll let his feelings be known and act like a grown up. This worked for a friend of mine-they got married 2 months ago.
2007-01-05 09:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Misty D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the one he goes after the other relationships in his life go wrong. I personally would stay away. If it's meant to be he will come around more regularly once you show a loss of interest!
2007-01-05 09:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the expression "keep them keen,treat them mean",sounds like this guy has.Best advice you need is to forget him and move on,find somebody who does want a proper relationship and who you can trust,all this guy wants to do is mess you about.Go out with friends and meet somebody who is genuine and honest.Eventually this other loser will get the message that he had his chance and blew it.....good luck.
2007-01-05 10:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by sarah y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like all he's after is sex, my suggestion would be not to bother with this guy anymore. He sound like a player, once he gets what he wants he'll move on to the girl. Guys like this aren't worth the time or effort.
2007-01-05 09:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by peggy y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! don´t worry, like your nickname says you are a special girl!! if he ignore you maybe he doesn´t want any seriously with you, don´t let that this kind of things hurts you, some day you are going to find some boy who loves you and he is going to be with you forever. Good Luck and !!!Don´t worry!!There are a lot of men that want to be with you!!!!
2007-01-05 10:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Rocío Perú 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he ignores you because he knows that no matter what he does you will always allow him to come back whenever he wants and pick up where he left off at.
2007-01-05 09:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lady T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By typing this out,you have answered the question for yourself. He is not interested in you for you. He is interested in you for sex- you seem to be interested in him however. Therefore you look for signs that he may be interested in you too. Which is why whenever he makes a return to you, you welcome him with open arms.
Now you have two choices; be dumb and play his game OR dump this loser forever.
2007-01-05 09:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anna D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋