OOK OK OK She just told me on MSN , shes 14. She has never experienced it before and was under pressure . to make it worse , no safety was used and we are worried sick for her , her bf has nicked off and wont answer our calls. whats should we do?
2007-01-05 01:07:35 · 19 answers · asked by Stelle S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell her to go to planned parenthood and get herself tested for diseases and pregnancy. And that she shouldn't fall for a crappy guys line, she is better than that and should respect her body by not putting herself at risk of disease by having unprotected sex!
2007-01-05 01:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Day after pill, one brand is called "Plan B" and tests. Most STD tests won't show results this quick, so she should be tested again for HIV in about 6 months and other STDs if any unusual symptoms show up.
In most places 14 is too young to legally consent to sex and if she was pressured that makes it worse. She can probably press charges. The only way he could maybe get away with it is if he's underage too. He may be able to duck you calls, but he can't duck the cops, at least not for long.
She needs to do some serious thinking too. I had a similar experience at 13 and I learned a LOT from it about respecting myself, being able to say no and how to not even get myself in situations that it could happen again. I was 16 before I had sex again and that was 100% my choice.
She'll be feeling pretty bad about herself I bet, provide her emotional support and a shoulder to cry on if she needs it. She's lucky to have a friend she trusts to tell, I didn't.
2007-01-05 02:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by tabithap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of I not trying to hurt no one feeling but why is this Girl 14 having sex anyways. She should have her mind on school not boys. Yall is really making this sex without a safety a big deal. But she going worry herself sex. She need to find out if the boy came in her or not. Tell her not to worry everything going work out. If the boy came in her she need to go to the doctor and find out if she pregant or not because its a 50/50 change she is. That boy was not a real boy because he just talk to her for the sex. Did she know the boy that she did it with and was they going together for a while. SHE LADIES THIS IS WHY WE NEED TO KEEP OUR LEGS CLOSED. BOYS WILL NOT RESPECT YOU IF THEY KNOW ITS EASY TO GET.
2007-01-05 03:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfortunately an old story about a boy getting his way and taking off. She needs to go to her parents (no this should not be a secret) on this and probably get checked out by her doctor for std's and pregnancy.
In the U.S. this may be considered statutory rape if the boyfriend is older depending on which state you live in.
Good luck to you and your friend.
2007-01-05 01:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to tell her parents. Although she's gonna hate to do it, its the best thing to do. THey can help guide her and help her make the right decision no matter the outcome of the pregnancy and other tests.
2007-01-05 01:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by af21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chance of getting HIV after sleeping with an container is 1/80. And there are plenty of "day after" pills in the market that can be used for like a week after sex, to prevent pregnancy.
Condoms are overrated, its like eating an caramell with the paper not removed...
2007-01-05 01:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by blooberrybungy 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She ought to attend and notice if she's pregnant, wait to work out if she has her era, if no longer then she ought to be apprehensive, she must be one hundred pc confident she is pregnant in the previous telling her mom and dad, if shes no longer, then they could freak out for no longer something and he or she will have the skill to be in deep poop.
2016-11-26 21:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by nancey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents, and then she needs to get tested for pregnancy and every disease avaliable. Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do except hope for the best.
2007-01-05 01:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she misses a period than take her to get a pregnancy test and go from there.
2007-01-05 05:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by robedzombiesoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get the morning after pill at a pharmacy or clinic now.
2007-01-05 01:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by john d 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋