first anyone who said that there are black guys out ther who are clean cut and nice yea your rare breeds. besides that you date caucasion women . by the way look at the statistics for everyone one black man there are five black women. Black men need to step there game up and get out of that whole man behind the curtain cenario , stop dating a whole bunch of girls and get the confidence to date one.
2007-01-05 00:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by fireflykissess 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I'm married to a man who is part vietnamese and part white. Now, I dated black men exclusively from about 17 til 23. Let me tell you and this is for real and if anyone doesn't like TOUGH - each and every one of those dogs cheated on me. One got his ex girlfriend pregnant while we were together. That same guy was also physically abusive. After that relationship, I began to expand and started dating different types of men. This may suck to hear for black men, but I have found (and this is my own personal experience) that the white men that I dated treated me better. The Middle eastern men I dated were very arrogant and do not look at their women as equals. Each white guy I dated valued honesty, fidelity and respect. I didn't find that when I was dating black men.
It's a problem in our race, big time. There are really good black men out there but they are mostly taken already. All that seems to be left is the dogs.
So, date whoever you want to. Don't let people tell you you're being a traitor. I don't give a damn about what people think. Maybe if more black men knew how to treat their women, black women wouldn't have to go outside their race to find a decent man.
Hate my opinion, answerers. I don't care. I'm speaking from my true experiences and i'm sure that most black women have experiences similar situations with black men, as well.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-05 01:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by 11:11 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the rest of what you said made any sense at all, but you seem really ticked off in the details.
However, to answer your actual question~
It's not racist to say you're gonna date another race. Actually, it's a very open minded thing to say and actually do. Even dating outside of your own culture is pretty open minded. I think it would be easier to date a black American male than it would be to date a white English male. Simply because I have more in common with an American than a Briton.
2007-01-05 08:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
race doesn't have anything to do with what you're saying. white, hispanic or asian males could behave in the same manner as the black males you describe.
don't stereotype a race just because the guys you know are undesirable matches for you. look around and i'm sure you'll find a guy- black, white, brown, whatever who you can relate to.
2007-01-05 09:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop while you're ahead, sista. We're doing it to each other. For example, videos from African American male artists denounce women as whores, while videos from women denounce men as dogs. Check it out.
2007-01-05 09:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to...
racist?
there..
you are..
Caucasian..
their...
scenario,
For being 'awesome', you have yet to prove how awesome you are when you spell and write. It can be taken as 'racist' because you are dating someone for their race(or ONLY for their race), and not for the kind of person s/he is.
2007-01-05 09:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol don't get cha self tide up in that mess baby guh lol once yu go black yu neva go back
once yu go white yo life will be bright
lol
2007-01-05 09:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by TRiLL 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋