I am 17 and me and my boyfriend just had a resent break up and we were trying to get pregnant cuz his mother wanted a child and i love kids so much we have been trying for like 4 or 5 months and i found out he cheated on me and so i broke up with him but i want him back but he got a girlfriend right away!! i havent ate in 9 days i am so stressed and depressed i think i am pregnant!!! My breast have been tender for about a week now but the pregnacy test say i am not pregnant? My stomach feels like it is getting harder!! i am so confused? please help me?
2007-01-05 00:33:42 · 9 answers · asked by Trisha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it sounds like you are, it seems to happen during break ups
2007-01-08 17:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the pregnancy test says your aren't, you most likely aren't. Have you missed a period, that is the real big sign that you are pregnant. You are probably just making yourself sick over your break up. I know it doesn't really help, but it is for the best that you broke up with him. If he cheated on you now, he would have always been cheating on you. The relationship obviously didn't mean as much to him as it did to you. You don't want to be stuck with a man you love who is always cheating on you, and having children with such a man only makes you more unable to leave such a louse. Trust me on this, I have been there before. You need to start eating and take care of yourself, it will get better, I promise, you just have to take it one day at a time. Take care of yourself, and worry about him less, you are the most important person in your life, never forget that!
2007-01-05 00:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyiiiis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....first you need to RELAX....all of the stress could be causing your symptoms.
Next, if the test is coming up negative, and you think you could be preggo, you need to see your doctor.
Finally, I hope everything works out ok for you, but why are you trying to get preggo at 17?! It's a long life girl....I'm 23 and pregnant and I wonder sometimes if I'm too young to handle it!!
One more thing...if your ex's mom is pressuring you to have a child at 17 she needs her head examined.
Good Luck 2 You
2007-01-05 00:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sence your having semtems yopu mite want to eat somthing you bad cant handle some when your not eating for 9 days you should eat somthing....i could help a bunch...have you had vomiting and all that fun stuff?you tummy mite be hard , but you cant not eat.i you do have a kid you need to start eating so you dont lose the baby.is your boy friends serice with this girl...it mite not last long between them so you can never know ...just eat somthing to help your body....please!!!!
2007-01-05 00:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by haley d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the prego tests are pretty accurate these days, trust it. Go get another. Also, your mind is a pretty powerful thing and can convince your body that it feels pregnant. Trust the science.
2007-01-05 00:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Eric K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably arent pregnate if the test says you arent.. buy another. and if you still think you might be pregnate just go to a doctor and he can find out for you. and i am 17 too.. dont you think you are too young to be having a baby?
good luck..
2007-01-05 00:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriends wants a baby, but not at her age, 17, more like 20's.
2007-01-05 00:48:37 · answer #7 · answered by yeeah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple minded ! so sad and sorry to hear that because you are going to suffer in life. Better get yourself to prepare for the worst.
2007-01-05 01:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does his mother wanting a child make him want to have a baby????????????
2007-01-05 00:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by KP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋