Im a single mum of 7 passable children,and over the years ive put on at least 9stone. Since my husband left me for another man ive felt a little down and last year he told me he no longer wanted to see the children as he said he wanted to devote his life to God.So i have filled my days eating cake and watching day time tv.But just recently i have had the urge to do more with my life.Theres an older man who lives on the same estate as me and he propositioned me last night saying there was a market for larger ladies in the modelling world and that if i allowed him to take some tasteful shots he would repay me in escorting me to bingo once a week to get me out the house.I trust him and he will be the one taking the photos but he said he would need to distribute the photos on the net first in order to see if there is a definate market for it.Are there alot of chubby chasers out there or am i wasting my time?I think hes a wonderful man for all hes doing.Its restored my faith in men
2007-01-05 00:26:02 · 15 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go for it ! as a fat blimp with 7 sprogs you have to grab EVERY opportunity you get ! lol
2007-01-05 00:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tasteful, as a rule, generally translates to slutty....
I'd be suspicious of him. He says he's take you to bingo as a favour for doing it.... If he's so nice,why doesnt he take you there ANYWAY as a show of friendship??
I'd be guessing, with all the drama thats happened, you feel pretty down about yourself but don't let this cloud your judgement- imagine if one of your children came home and said theyd been propositioned this way, how you you feel?
I'd probably advise you start getting yourself out the house more (go to bingo alone!! It'll take guts but you CAN do it!) and try taking more daily walks to get some exercise.
If nothing else, with 7 kids you should be concerned about your weight- what would they do without you?
You've already had the urge to change your life- just take a deep breath and do it! There's normally adverts in local libraries etc for groups that you might like to join to meet some friends... or have you lost contact with some you might like to meet up with again! It all helps!
Have faith, be strong and don't let a man degrade you for a weak offer of friendship -you DESERVE real friends!!
2007-01-05 00:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by spagbolfordinner 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok so intercourse no condom and being very energetic sexually hmm we could see the probability is intense your doing each and every thing which you're able to desire to do to get pregnant As to the extra ideas::: He would not would desire to stay in uncomplicated terms pay and correctly if he needs to be he may well be a lifeless beat dad that's no longer remarkable you understand ultimate get examined for being pregnant and STD's and end letting him interior you with no condom till you want to be a mom
2016-10-06 11:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nellynoo, no need to get off your sizable @rse, just keep spending the child benefit in the pub and chipper and send the kids out to sing on the high street for fags money. No need for you to be exploited yourself
2007-01-05 00:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Either you ar having us on or you are incredibly lonely to be considering such a thing. You might trust him but most people would certainly not. if you want to get out find where your nearest Weightwatchers group is and join it. you will get out of the house , meet new people and gain more confidence. definately DO NOT let him take photos.
2007-01-05 00:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like the best chance you're going to get
2007-01-05 00:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Martin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God in his wisdom gave you a husband that could have led you on the path to righteousness - repent now, get him back and you will get your reward in heaven x (Alternatively - email me the pics asap xxx)
2007-01-05 00:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do not let him take photos. Do not go to bingo with him.
2007-01-05 00:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh! For crying out loud!!
Just hump him already....then we can get down to some serious answers!
2007-01-05 00:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you an author? these questions of yours look as if they have come out of a Thriller!
2007-01-05 02:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
big bums weekly here you come..
just think nelly noo you could be the next big star!!
2007-01-05 01:13:31 · answer #11 · answered by missnikid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋