My mom was proposed to,and some of the people in our family
dosen't belive in being married again,because of something they read in the bible. all of you might not be able to understand me,because i'm more on the spiritual side of life.
2007-01-05 00:24:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Music
I have been married twice. My second marriage was in a church and performed by our Pastor. My husband and I FINALLY know what it means to be happy and crazy in love. I was in an abusive marriage and his was a loveless marriage. I would marry him again if I had to do it over. I truly believe I made a grave misjudgment the first time around. My ex-husband whom I am very good friends with... now because all is forgiven, agrees with me.
I believe God wants all His children to be happy. If your Mom has to be married a second time to find this happiness then I believe God is smiling down on her. Besides I believe if God did NOT want her to be married a second time, He would not have brought this man into her life. As far as your family is concerned, it is NOT their place to judge her for her decision.... THAT is God's place ONLY.
Best wishes to your Mom and may she be forever happy.
2007-01-05 00:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by RaLoh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married twice. The last time we went thru a class at church. The couple teaching have been married a long time. I asked them if they thought people looked down on me. They said what I had to understand is that God has the perfect person in mind for you to marry. It is just sometimes we do not listen and marry someone else. We then have to find the path to our intended then we will know true happiness.
2007-01-05 00:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by lovesaragon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with being married twice, religion makes marriage out to be a union, so once she gets married again she will once again be in a union, and if they are relgious like you say; they will be observant and obediant under God.
Just as there is a part of the Bible that poses a problem for your family with your mother's second marriage, there is a part that would support it also. **
Good luck
2007-01-05 00:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by GreyRainbow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I encourage her to accept the proposal if it will increase her happiness. I find second marriages are better than the first because we go in with realistic relationship expectations. (no stars in our eyes) I also believe that God puts us in certain situations for a reason. It's to improve our spiritual growth. It's possible that this new relationship was sent to her for a reason known only to our divine creator. By accepting and seeing it through, she may be brought closer to her God, and that's part of why we're here.
Best wishes to her and to you and your family during this difficult decision. I wish you all the happiness possible.
2007-01-05 00:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Happenstance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing ! If the first try didnt work out for what ever reason, try again if the love is there. If there is a cultural or spiritual reason well you choose the life you live.
2007-01-05 00:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by BRIAN G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not even close!
why yr family does not approve? R u religious?
Bible can be interpreted by people in a way that they wish. each and everyone has a different way to look at things.
the important thing is for your mom to be happy and for u to be happy for yr mom.
where will those 'some people in yr family' be when yr mom is lonely or she needs some company or even help.
if she wants to , she must go for it.
life is too short to be framed !
2007-01-05 00:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by choice2make4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing wrong but in certain religion such as catholicism it is highly wrong to marry through church once and then remarry but as long as your mom is happy is all that matters, as well as your happy and think can accept whoever as her new husband then everything should be fine.
2007-01-05 00:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by salem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong in a second marriage as long as they are happy and have faith in the lord.
2007-01-05 00:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Louisa R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong in getting married again ,if your mom is willing to marry again she should not pay attention to what others are thinking,its difficult to lead life alone,even my parennts r seperated so i can understand
2007-01-05 00:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as long as there is everlasting love.
2007-01-05 00:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋