some times I feel that there is more than a co-incidence to the things that happen to me, ex- why did i forget my phone on the day that it was going to be so important for my new job appointment. I think I was not ment to get that job, as somany things happened to stop me, & afterwards I got the real job i wanted, I couldnt imagine my self working for the one I missed as somany things would not come in to place...what do you think it is just luck or is every thing at a systematic flaw..........
2007-01-05 00:19:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Maybe you subconsciously prevented yourself from getting the job since you said yourself that you really wanted the other one. Not that you would do it on purpose but maybe these "series of events" that led you to not get the other job weren't coincidence at all, but a form of your subconscious taking over and you ended up inadvertently controlling the situation b/c it's not what you really wanted.
That being said, yes my gut feeling tells me it's all more that a coincidence :)
2007-01-05 03:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every one is under the control of our surroundings to a certain degree.
Unfortunately if you are a christian you are in the hands of do gooders, (Usually for their own selfish purposes) and will be exploited left right and centre.
You do not need them.
Be strong and think for yourself.
2007-01-05 00:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think there "was" a higher level of controll/ guidance. our fate/ destiny has been written before we opened our eyes in this world. he, who's the author of everything, wants better things in our lives so he doesn't want you to have the first job. he doesn't want mediocracy in our lives. everything sure happens for a great purpose. just believe and trust "him".
2007-01-05 00:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by bluepaint5 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We are all responsible for our own actions, period.
2007-01-05 01:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋