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What Do Women Want From Men? What Qualities? And, If a woman were to meet a man at a bar/club, what would be the best way to approach her in order not to seem too desperate?

2007-01-04 23:58:22 · 9 answers · asked by Chiefs 1 in Social Science Gender Studies

9 answers

Let's see if I can help...

- Confidence
- Good manners
- Witty sense of humor (But dont be too smart if she is the dumby kind, cause she wont understand and will get frustrated)
- Good looks. (When women say they they dont go after looks... well, thats just not true. hey, I dont blame them!)
- Good chemistry
- Good, or decent economic situation.

If she sees you as a potential long-term partner, she will pay attention to details such as the guy's:

- Family values
- Good genes, good health in general.
- Ambitious career.
- Personality compatibility

Well, I just wanted to put it short, so I'll stop here.
Again, every woman is different, but in my opinion these are very common traits that our beautiful and loved women go after.

By the way, be yourself when approaching a girl, keep it low key and funny. Dont talk about your exs or about how many girls you have dated in the last month.

Good luck, buddy!!

2007-01-05 00:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Skubba 1 · 0 1

That is a tough question. As you've seen from some responses, men who've been used tend to look at all women and say they want money...we're all gold diggers...well, for some, that may be true, but not for all.

I do agree that most good women want a stable relationship. They want a nice looking man (come on...if you're not attracted to the person, how do you expect to want to get to know them?)...they want someone who is going to treat them like a lady not a punching bag or a booty call...they want someone who will be a good spouse, a good father...a good provider...romantic...

As for how to approach us? Be yourself. Don't be arrogant...don't be pushy...just be yourself...we will see right through the fake stuff..

2007-01-05 02:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by smoke_n_jr 1 · 1 0

A bar would be the LAST place I look for a man !!!

I would check out "singles events".

I can only speak for myself.... I look for a sense of humor or the ability to deal with MY sense of humor. He must be quite relaxed and willing to over look all the practical jokes he will be at the end of.

He must be super ambitious and know how to work long and hard.

He must not care about physical sports but have interest in motorcycles.

He must be very mellow for I am high strung and need grounding.

He must have a high sex drive and be willing to have me take control from time to time.

He must know how to use a broom and a vacuum cleaner & must not be afraid of dish water!

He must appreciate being waited on hand and foot and being treated like a KING.

He must never hit... If he hits once he will be pulling his balls out of his nose and his teeth out of his A$S. One chance with me is all anyone gets.

I could go on and on but then I already have this man of MY dreams... aaaaaaaaaagh life is damn GOOD !!!!

2007-01-05 02:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 6 · 1 0

A lot like you, women want enjoyable company! Be polite, be fun, don't try too hard to come accross with a particular style. If it's fake, most women will pick up on it. What most women want is someone who is nice to be with, not phoney or a show-off/braggart. Be who you are and then it's not so hard to maintain as time goes on. Good luck.

2007-01-05 00:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 1 1

Women want sincerity. If you can fake that then you've got it made.

However Tony Curtis said all you need is:
1) Good looks
2) Money
3) A nice car

2007-01-05 00:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just be yourself.

If you have the qualities a particular woman wants, then she will want to be with you.

I don't know how anyone can generalize what all women want. It is like asking what all women want to eat. It is ridiculous.

2007-01-05 02:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Donna S 3 · 1 0

I think one trait most women want is stability in their lives. If they find a man that can give them that, they are most likely to stick with him.

2007-01-05 00:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi C 5 · 1 0

Try waving a fistful of Fifties under her nose.

2007-01-05 00:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 0 3

your money, your sperm, to fix their car, to be their slave then they will divorce you and still expect your money. And end up spending your money on a badboy.

2007-01-05 00:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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