Is this bad?

Question

When i say bad, i mean as in immoral. Is it bad to express hormones going crazy? Everyone goes through it at some point, but that won't make it right, right (technically that's my question) ?

Ok. more details. umm well not public expression, but more private. It's mostly all the thoughts in my head that are really starting to bother me

What i want to know is are those 'thoughts' bad; as in should i not be thinking about them.
(hopefully you can assume what those 'thoughts' are

2nd answer there would have been helpful (thx) but i mean is the thought bad. I'm not going to DO it, just is thinking about it bad. Thats my question

Answer 1

Are you asking if you have permission to have sex without the usual strings attached, and then excuse it all because you have a case of hormone driven hots- the answer is yes, it would still be immoral. You are not some animal driven by instinct and prewired to mate. You are a creature capable of thought and logic, and capable of contolling your behavior. While you can certainly jump the bones of whatever willing partner you can find, you will still have to deal with yourself later. No matter what paintbrush you choose to use to make it look prettier, you will not be able to change how you feel about the encounter. And, hormones or not, you will still be using another human and be used by another human. All actions and decisions come with consequences, and you have to accept them all once you act or decide. In the case of sex, if you decide to have it, you accept the possibility of parenthood, sexually transmitted diseases, and facing yourself afterwards. If you are willing to take whatever consequences there are as a result of your decision, then do it. Just be honest with yourself about your true motives for the decision and quit trying to find some acceptable excuse. If you can't live with it, don't do it . No excuse in the world is going to make you feel like a hero when you know you behaved like a heel.
So far as thoughts being wrong, sinful or whatever term you want to use- no thought is sinful, or at least not as long as you don't focus your time and energy on them. It is perfectly normal to have the thoughts, everyone has them- especially teenagers. That's nothing more than dress rehersal and preparation. Eventually you will want to find your own special somebody, settle down and have a permanent adult type relationship, probably complete with family. All the feelings and desires that will make that a reality don't just appear out of the blue one fine day. The feelings and thoughts are just the starting point, to lead you in the direction you are meant to go to get to that final point. There's nothing wrong with boys thinking about girls, or girls thinking about guys. But sex is not the be all and end all of a good stable relationship. It's just a part of it. Just as these thoughts are not all of you- only a part. If it's really bugging you, talk it over with a parent, or trusted older adult. Find other things to occupy your time and energy in more productive ways, so you don't have as much to dedicate to thinking of things that will just frustrate you. But take assurance that your thoughts are perfectly normal and healthy. It's not the thoughts, it's what you do with them that leads to problems and trouble.

Answer 2

It isn't bad morally to think things----but sometimes it can get dangerous.
If you dwell on something too much then the chances are that you will act on it.
You are obviously feeling guilty about what is going on---that is your conscience yelling at you----just try and distract yourself with other things.

Answer 3

depends gow you express it. be more specific

Answer 4

It depends... !! nuff said!