Would you be suspicious if......?

Question

your partner kept his mobile phone switched off when he was home in the evening?

Answer 1

SWEETHEART, TRY AND IGNORE JEANNE J, SHE FRIGHTENED ME, AND ITS NOT EVEN MY QUESTION!

YES I WOULD BE VERY SUS. UNLESS HE IS VERY CONSIDERATE, AND HES DONE IT SINCE DAY 1, TO ENSURE YOUR 'TOGETHER TIME' IS NOT DISTURBED.

WHEN MY X-WIFE WAS WASHING HER CAR, I INTERRORGATED HER PHONE, WHICH REVEALED THE SEED THAT EVENTUALLY SHOWED SHE WAS PLAYING AWAY. MIND YOU, IM GLAD I DID IT, SHE WAS SO CALCULATING, SHE'D NEVER HAVE TOLD ME.

IF YOU DO HAVE A LOOK AT HIS PHONE, HE MAY HAVE BEEN CLEVER TO DELETE ALL THE 'INS' AND THE 'SENTS', BUT CHECK HIS PHONEBOOK. HES BOUND TO HAVE A 'NAME' FOR THE PERSON SOMEWHERE IN THERE. IF YOU KNOW HIM AND HIS CONTACTS VERY WELL, IT MAY STAND OUT.

GOOD LUCK. X

Answer 2

By saying partner, I assume you are not married and the fact that you are suspicious of him indicates that you are a very insecure lady with a problem with jealousy and this would sadly be the result of living together. WHen people live together, there is no certainty that one might jsut up and leave. There is no accountability, all the more reason why the Bible says you must be married. MArriage is secure and the fact that you are committed to each other means that neither would even think about leaving the other unless the marriage lacks love from the husband to the wife and respect from the wife to the husband.

My angel this will continue unless you are married and sadly if you have the thoughts that you have towards him now, i would suggest you either end the relationship or marry but living in limbo is not helping things. All you are is a second hand wife.
You deserve better.

I would not be suspicious in fact I would rather see it as he prefers to remain home in the evenings alone with you undisturbed.

Clearly you have a problem and I would deal with it before the root of jealousy gets too deep and destroys everything.

I hope you make the right choice and soon.

Answer 3

Yes, I personally would be suspicious. I used to wonder why my BF kept his phone switched off or on "silent" mode when he was at home, and I finally looked at his phone one day...and there were a bunch of text messages from other women on there, sexual stuff. He was obviously switching his phone off for a reason.

Maybe your man isn't doing anything, but it's been my personal experience that people do this because they're hiding something. And I don't fall for the "conserving battery life" excuse, either...that's what the charger is for. You can plug your phone to the charger to keep your battery full...there's no need to turn the phone OFF to save the battery.

Answer 4

That depends really, if its something hes started doing different then, maybe yes, if it's something that he's always done then no, he might just want to be left alone by outsiders, anyone important will have the land line number , if you have one.... Has your relationship changed??? If yes, then
If you can, what i would do is, wait until he goes the loo and turn it on,
if you can't and it's pass-worded then ask him for the password, tell him you want to look at something,
just make something up.. If he's defencive and moody as to why,ask why he has such a big problem with you looking at his phone and is he hiding something, I'm afraid if it's bothering you, then you gotta ask him out right really or try and do what i would do!!!!! Good luck!

Answer 5

Mine does that all the time, he only turns it on when not home or outside just in case I need him, the reason why he does it is because he hates talking on the phone and if anyone really needs to get ahold of them they can call the house or my cell and reach him through me, he never answers the home phone or my cell I would not worry about that one

Answer 6

you are aren't you? & only you know the reasons for you feeling that way....it takes more than a mobile phone being switched off to cause suspicions....you must have other reservations going on here...

Answer 7

Only if he suddenly started to turn it off. My ex never did until he found someone else, then the mobile phone started to disappear from my sight.

Answer 8

yes,it can be suspicious!because there's no reason why he needs to switch off his phone when he comes home...you must find out why though.

Answer 9

No, unless its recent changes. Mobile phone or emails is a personal thing and we respect very much on privacy.

Answer 10

Maybe. You should trust him. Maybe he feels he's in for the night and doesn't want to be bothered any longer now that he's home. If you are really curious, turn it on when he's asleep and check the missed calls. I don't think you have any worries though.