My boyfriend of almost 5 years wants to break up with me...I can't handle it, I don't know what to do...we've been through so much together, we still love each other, but he thinks it won't work out :( I'm not a weakling, but right now I feel soooooo weak. I guess this isn't really a question, I'm just venting...cuz I have no one to talk to right now, and I'm feeling so lonely and blue. HELP! www.myspace.com/ninna520
2007-01-04 22:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by nimo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HOney take a break from each other for a while. God has a better plan for you with another guy who will be even better than this one. I know you are upset and hurting but rather a little hurt now thatn major hurt when you are married with a family and left to fend for all of them by yourself. I dont say he is the kind but one can never be sure. You are still young and free and you are not a looser either in fact you are special and GOd loves you very very much. Someone else will make you feel more special. The fact that you have been through so much together might be what brought this about. Dont beat yourself up with the IF's and BUT IF's or IF ONLY'S for that matter, rather look forward to a new season and someone even more speial to come across your path.
I am so sorry for your hurt and feeling blue. Life is like that. In the meantime you focus on becoming confident. Stop walking in fear. Think positively and whenever negative thoughts pop out take them captive and replace them with the positive things. Take risks and even if they may not always work out dont give up. Life is a challenge. If you operate in the negative you will have negative results and a walkover to others. Be accountable to yourself. You have to make your life work and you can. You have to go there. Be a fighter and make things happen. You can do anything that you put your mind to. Go for it girl!Pray for the man you want and describe him in detail to God. Then you wait and trust God to bring him to you, and God will.
God bless you. Oh and take God with you. It really works.
2007-01-04 23:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-04 22:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Venting is always good but not knowing why its hard to understand the breakup. Take the good parts and store them in your heart. They will be with you always then take one day at a time and focus on you and what makes you special. Don't run into another relationship until you do that. You have to be happy first. Good luck
2007-01-04 23:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing ya need to do is drop the my space , its a relationship killer, its fun if your 12 years old, second people suck i was with mine for11 years and got kicked to the curb for a fatty, you cant change people they are going to do what they want, have you thought that there may be someone else, dont think it isnt possible, then it becomes easier you get bitter instead of hurt, good luck
2007-01-04 23:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by waterboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that there is no good way to leave a bad situation. I would just try to leave "as well off, or better" than when you came in.
2007-01-04 23:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by donny2knives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well life does go on and move on.
Stay busy.
Everything happens for a reason.
2007-01-04 23:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go..if you love him you better let him be the one to deside and be happy to what are his decision...if you really love him and really care for him you will respect and accept his desicion that can make the two of you happy...the time will come it is your destiney if he is the real person for you.just pray to god for your life to become better even he is not with you anymore.god bless and take care
2007-01-04 23:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by john darrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for you, that is tough. If he wants to go though you have to let him go and try to move on with your life. Good luck and God Bless!
2007-01-04 23:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh blue is good, much worse if it was green.
2007-01-05 00:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋