2007-01-04 22:43:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him and let him know what you are afraid of and ask to meet some of his friends or know what they are like. Most online chats arn't harmful unless you are included in this activity as his wife. He may not be chatting with "girls" as much as sharing a common interests. If you find he is spending more time with them than you, it's a problem, confront it in a conversation. If he doesn't let you peek over his shoulder or is hiding the screen, you have a valid concern. Discuss, negotiate, keep building trust - if that doesn't work... give alternatives.
2007-01-04 23:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Install a Net Nanny on your computer and have those areas blocked----
or you can hit Start, Control Panel, then internet options----you can block areas including chat rooms and you can also passcode it so that no one can chat !!!
Find out what the attraction is to your husbands chatting and possibly meeting these females online? TELL him you hate it and how it bothers you----if he doesn't stop you could always play fire with fire and start chatting with men online and giving him a taste of his own medicine!
2007-01-04 23:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wear some thing naughty and stand next to him while he's at the computer. Then ask what would prefer me or the computer. If he doesn't turn the stupid thing off right away and go make love to you then its probably time to see a divorce lawyer. he shouldn't be talking to anyone online. If he's chatting with girls thats a big problem.
2007-01-04 22:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I for one,would not put up with that. He is certainly not showing you love or respect by doing that. Not sure what I would do but I would not want to grow old with him. He's no fun.!!
My heart goes out to you. Some men just never become real men, if you follow me. They are going no where in life. I hope there are no children involved here that he is setting the example of a husband and Father for.
Good Luck to you and I hope ya'll can work it out.
2007-01-04 23:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him two can play this game. Tell him you are going to start chatting with the guys on the net. Tell him you might even have lunch with one if you find one that's interesting.
I wouldn't be a bit surprised if he then disconnected the computer and stopped internet service.
2007-01-05 00:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it positively. There is something missing in your marriage. Look for that missing thing. Find some thing of his interest and you share them with him. Remember men has ego and never directly confront him. He only trying to fill up time that both of you could not make use of it together. So do some innovation in your lifestyle and share the beautiful moments together and you fill find it you husband will always be waiting for you.
2007-01-04 23:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by awangmohamed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unplug the Networking Cable
2007-01-04 23:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is horny and need an outlet. Always exiting to meet some-one new. Challanging trying to see how far he can go with theses girls. Maybe you dont spend enough time with him. Well, if it stays with cybersex, no biggie. Let the old hubby have some fresh air and some fun ehh. Life to short.
2007-01-04 22:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by redacatfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pam there's no easy answers here, take the moment for further exploration in your love making. Ask him about what he likes in the women he speaks to. A lot of men like the idea of mysterious and allusive women, this could be both tantalizing for men and women.
Use his fantasy's to your own advantage tell him "you want to share his fantasy's and want to join him.
2007-01-05 00:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Tell him his actions bothers you. We must give each other mutual respect and be much considerate over his actions. Imagine how would he feel if he were in your shoes.
2) An eye for an eye!
3) If you cant beat them, join them!
Sit next to him and join him in the chat. See how he react...
2007-01-04 23:16:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋