How hard is it to brake up with a fiance that loves you dearly and start a new life in a new town?
2007-01-04 22:22:25 · 21 answers · asked by night_lilly66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've thought about it lots and i'm just no tin love with him anymore. It's not fair to him am i right?
2007-01-04 22:47:53 · update #1
on a scale of one to ten, i would give that about a 12. Breaking up with someone like a boyfriend is one thing but breaking up with someone that loves you and wants to spend the reat of his life with you is another. I you are truly not ready to get married and you think that your with the wrong person, talk to them about it. They deserve to know why you aren't ready to get married. If they really love you they will understand. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 22:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8
2007-01-04 22:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not there now the chances are won't get any better with time. You can't change a person nor can you change yourself for that person. The best thing to do is to find someone that you want to be with. The courts are fill with couples that made that mistake. Good luck Oh and it very hard because you don't want to hurt someone that loves you but somethings are not meant to be so I give it a 10
2007-01-04 23:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it rates pretty high on the stress scale, but if you have grown apart and you aren't in love with him anymore it's the right thing to do. You have to listen to your heart. You don't want to continue a relationship just because you don't want to hurt the other person. It is what's best for both of you in the long run. You certainly don't want to end up in a loveless marriage.
2007-01-04 23:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please by all means, be honest with both yourself and with this man. You both deserve honesty. I know that it may be difficult but in the end it will be for the best. My husband claims after 8 years of marriage that he married me only so that I could get medical insurance b/c I was pregnant with his child. He's lived a lie for so long and tried to convince himself now he's filling for a divorce. I'm the one wishing he had been honest with me from the get go. As far as moving to a new town, I can only imagine that one. I'm out of the country and I'm sick thinking about relocating but it's just a matter of time.
2007-01-04 23:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give it a ten hands down......breaking up with someone you love, espescially if you've gotten to the point of engagement is rough stuff....
You need to know that if you're following your heart you must stay strong and surround yourself with ppl who seriously love you in return...family and dear friends opinions on this matter are what should concern you most! They always have a way of seeing what we usually cannot....
2007-01-04 22:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 20:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by sobczak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be fair if you weren't honest about your feelings. It's very hard to break up with someone who loves you - but it must be done if you don't see yourself being able to tolerate this person around for any length of time.
2007-01-05 00:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a ten but, you're right you have to do it. It's not fair to him to be with someone that doesn't feel the same about him. Don't put it off it won't get any easier if you wait.
2007-01-04 23:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that must be too painfull. may be u regret the decision later in ur life. so take some time to think before u decide on anything.
Value will between 8 and 9.
2007-01-04 22:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋