She's great in bed but I'm not that keen on her personality.
2007-01-04 22:08:12 · 16 answers · asked by DAVE 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most of the people just get attracted due to sex only and once it gets bored the cat is out of the bag. This is what that would happen due to the dating culture of the present day. The days of getting married first than having sex has gone and therfore naturally this sort of a situation crops up. No way I would suggest you to tell her in the first instance when you meet her because she has already been cheated and any further delay would hurt her more.
2007-01-04 22:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one wouldn't wanna be used. Why don't u just tell her straight asap to get it over with. That way, you're hurting her not as much. Rather than having her expect you actually love her or the sort. Break up with her while it's still early. Skip the "using for sex" thing though. Just tell her that it's not working out as how you'd expect it. you're a guy anyway.
2007-01-05 06:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by white_winx44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about what she will be like when she is pregnant with your child. Instead of worrying about what comes out the upper end your senses will be watching the lower lower level changes. I wouldn't be in a relationship just for sex, it is a bad habit and somebody always ends up getting hurt.
2007-01-05 06:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by 2-007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ok so how do i put this....hmmmm??? JUST EFFING TELL HER!! before she gets any further in this relationship. Just do it ASAP. things are going to get complicated. chuck the SEX as a lost there is plenty else out there you'll find that special someone.
how long have u two been together
2007-01-05 06:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by queen_malesa_cmt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well how can you call her a "girlfriend" if your using her for sex??? firstly you have to ask yourself what and how would i feel if i was her and i felt that i had the best guy on earth that loved me and that she didnt have a care in the world? secondly you have to ask yourself if i was in her shoes and she came up to you and said " hey babe im using you for sex ok?" your reaction isnt going to be good now is it if you was her.....so to get out of this so you both dont get hurt ask her how she feels about you and if the reply is" i love you baby" or words similar to that then you know she is going to take it to heart badly, but if the response is " yeah hun i like you but" well if you get a but in your response from her its good as you know she isnt happy with something.........it all depends on how long you have been with her for also..............or you could just take her out to dinner and for a nice night out then as your taking her home give her a bunch of flowers with a note inside saying how you feel and hun let her down gently........i can see that your a good bloke but hey everyone makes mistakes in their life...........anyway good luck with my advice if you choose to take it.
2007-01-05 06:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by huskiiz01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell your proud being a jerk. Try honesty, for a change. I bet Fate's payback (when it comes) will be something special just for you. You can go slither back under your rock now.
2007-01-05 06:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her about how its a personality thing. Don't tell her about the sex unless she asks.
2007-01-05 06:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with her mate. Tell her you don't want a relationship. It's the only way.
2007-01-05 06:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she'd feel about splitting, but still making night trips. That or just cut it off completely and find someone else.
2007-01-05 06:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oooooo jeeeeez dude your a playe, You should tell her as soon as you see her again. this is not nice of you to do. Your breaking her heart. hope you realise that it wasnt worth it
2007-01-05 06:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by missie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋