2007-01-04 22:06:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
mourning plays an important role, but it should not handicap or interfere with your life too much. three years seems like a pretty lot of mourning to me. I don't think you will die, and I do think that it is time you carry on with your life.
perhaps you simply need someone to talk about that whole thing, how you're feeling, how you have been hurt...
2007-01-04 22:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you don't die now but you do need to seek some help for that. According to professionals you are only supposed to mourn a death for 6 months. I'm assuming this is just a relationship that fell apart.
2007-01-04 22:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by ...huh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey bunny, not worth dying any fatally doomed relationship as there always have to be a morning after, even if is with a Ms. Wrong. Egads! Accept the horrid reality of the situation!
2007-01-04 22:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The break up of a relationship is always difficult.
It's time to be you now. You are you and you don't need anyone to be you. You are still equipped to do all the things in life that you've always wanted to do and achieve the things you've always wanted to achieve.
Let your light shine. I know it might not seem like it but live your life and that pain will go. You'll find things that you enjoy doing. You will probably find happiness with someone as well.
Hang in there and you will get through this. We do go through some really tough times and it seems like there's no end to it but you will get over this.
It sounds like you need to go to your doctor who will offer you counselling to talk through things with someone. Go and do that today. x x x
2007-01-04 22:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand! I Wasted 5 years mourning one. It's really not worth it. I know its hard to believe, but your better off just putting it all behind you. The sooner , the better.
2007-01-04 22:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Bean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are u nuts. u must be crazy do mourn for something for 3 years and even wanted to die for it. Life is to njoy and not to sit and mourn. forget all tehse things and enjoy life
2007-01-04 22:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by hema 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it, you wasting your life on something that is gone. Try doing new things, meet new people , you dont have to date but make new friends. Try & be with people that will take your mind off the past. Do something challenging that will benefit your future. Dont let your life pass you by, When you look again you would have lost so much time & you would have nothing to show. Take control of your future. let go of your past
2007-01-04 22:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not die now. . . start anew now........
it is acceptable that you can't think differently the next norning, but encourage yourself and think, there are lots of opportunities for you to learn. Maybe you can't find your happiness now but in the next few years,yes. . . Take this as a learning lesson and look at the BRIGHTER side, you can advise people who are at the same situation. Regards.
2007-01-04 22:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun look...... im a single mum and had a 4year domestic violent relationship.....i had 3 kids to this bloke and i had to leave my eldest 2 with his mum due to family court reasons......i was controlled,brain washed,beaten,re-educated by this bloke but i still thought he was the love of my life.......well when i got back to my home state with 1/3 kids i felt free but really i was mourning our break up.....i have a mental illness of "rapid bi-polar depression" its a case of manic depression and depression i have recently had my child out of my care due to what he did to me.....its been 4 years now that i am still mourniong for him even though he has moved on but i still feel i am a part of him even though i had his kids.........i have seeked help in all kinds of areas well today as i type i got my child back and yes i still feel like ending it but i dont cause i have kids to look after and i have to think im a role model and a mum in their life and if i think selfishly and try to take the easy way out of life i realise how will the people who love and care for me feel when i go.......every one takes the wrong paths in life and find that ending it is the best way.......to end ones life is a cop out in life to stay and deal with your problems and grieving not only makes you stronger but you get to feel the sunshine on your skin and the rain dropping on your body........so is dying really the answer???.......no its not if you go and your soulmate came round the corner he would of missed out cause you took the easy way out of life because of one guy.......their is more than one guy in the world yes but what you share with that one guy will never be shared with the next guy you meet...trust me on that one..........each relationship is different and built to test our strengths and weaknessess.........hope this answer has been some help to your decision making.....
2007-01-04 22:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by huskiiz01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋