he was acting way too weird lately when he calls. what should i put on the divorce decreed ? i want him to pay for what he did.
2007-01-04 21:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by padricdillon21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Adultery. Then sue him and her for emotional pain. Make them pay for counseling for your broken heart, and ya stretch it out a few years. And make sure you get a good lawyer who can get you everything!
2007-01-04 21:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the law is very clear these day. and it depends on many factors.
how long was the marriage, property and vehicles purchase during the marriage, and children. Did you work during the marriage or ran the house hold. You are entitled to half in California. Your lawyer will write it out for you and the wording has to be in legal terms. Ask for everything, like spousal support. It will be decided who will get what before the two of you ever see the judge. but if I was you go to a book store or library and educated your self on what you get. that way you know what to ask for and you can then push your lawyer for it. they will just do their job, its like just another divorce to them. Knowledge is Power.
2007-01-05 05:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if that is the case and he did break his wedding vows, according to God's word, the Holy Bible you are allowed to divorce him. However, also according to scriptures it also states that you may never marry, because he who marries you will be committing adultery. What your husband did is low down and very unexcusable, but you need to do one of two things: Forgive him and his actions and give him another chance to prove his worthiness to you and stick out your marriage, especially if there are kids involved or divorce him baring in mind you may not remarry ever again. This is the only advice I can give you on this subject matter!
2007-01-05 05:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by chris a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok get over the fact you want him to pay because you lose out that way. If you resent him for what he did then you are having the wrong emotion. People cheat because they do not love something about themselves. They also are full of insecurities and need your pitty not your hate. If he abused you while doing so pitty him all the more but you move on. Resentment only causes you to self distruct. Love yourself enough to forgive him and move on. Try to get revenge and watch as you destroy yourself.
2007-01-05 05:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by kim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he has been cheating on you put down that he has committed adultry if not then irreconcable differences i know it might be hard and hurt like mad but dont lower yourself to his level get what you are entitled to then leave him to it at the end of the day he is going to pay as he is the one who is going to have to live with the fact that he has lost probably the best thing that has ever happened to him (you) for the rest of his life. just keep your chin up get those dancing shoes back on and go and find someone who is going to treat you how you deserve to treated and leave that lowlife to wallow in his own guilt xx hope this helps honey and good luck
2007-01-05 06:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultery on the divorce decree.. it would be better if u hire a good lawyer so that u can end up with half of his savings
2007-01-05 05:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by cfrozty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey marriage is a relationship in which both of them trust each other
if some on efound that the ttrust from the other side broken then he/she must seperate from each other this isbasic neccesity because if their is no trsut then they can not live a long life all the life they have to face the tension
So acc to me if u think that he is cheating u then live him they is no other solution regarding this problem.
2007-01-05 05:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by monu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have a breakdown, you know, scream at him with tears, cry myself to sleep and skip work for a couple days. then file for divorce. then, try to get used to the fact he's not there anymore.
I definatly wouldn't take him back no matter how much he begged, that's just asking for it to happen again.
2007-01-05 05:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine was and the lawyer said in our state they no longer put things like that down just irreconsible differences. don't worry he will pay. mine after 6 yrs. is always calling me he is a very lonely man who has realized his mistakes in life. I have moved on and am very happy. he is not though and i am glad that he has got his. they say what goes around comes around. I live in CT.
2007-01-05 05:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would frist find out if he really was my husband cheated on me after being together for 15 year but before i got a divorce i watched to make sure he was and i found out he was cheating on me with my siser-in-law and our bed and i divorce he
2007-01-05 05:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by shaphire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋