It was during our company's Christmas party. My officemate asked my husband if he could take me for a dance. My husband, ever the nice guy, said yes, & as soon as we hit the dance floor, my coworker's quick hands were all over my body, caressing&fondling, while the slow romantic music played around us. He hugged me so close to him, & i could feel the throbbing of his hard (& maybe very big) penis hitting my tummy area. He kissed me on the lips & tongued me for a while,& i almost forgot that my hubby's with me at this party, but when i looked at where my husband was, he was talking to somebody else & had no clue on the moves my officemate was doing on me. i told my officemate that my hubby may see us, but said he doesn't care & that he wants to make me his right then. Frankly, I was so aroused at that time, & we went to the dark backyard & he took me right there, standing position. He even put his kissmark on my left armpit. Shall i confess to my husband? I feel guilty,but aroused also.
2007-01-04 21:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by jenny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Liar. Heh.
2007-01-04 21:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, lost a family over it. Of course, my marriage was severely sick in the first place or else I would've been repulsed by the advances of another man. With my current husband (who knows all about my past) I don't have temptations toward other men because I get what I need at home.
My advice -- work on your marriage. If I were you, I wouldn't tell your husband unless you have strong suspicions that the marriage is beyond repair. There's no sense hurting him only to relieve your guilt. However, if this is a repeated behavior pattern or if you feel inclined to have an all-out affair with this guy, it might be best for your husband to know the whole story.
Take some action today. Call a counselor or something.
2007-01-04 21:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, after reading your short romance novel, I feel as though you would make a great writer someday, only I did find it just a tad repulsive because that is your husband and no matter how much that man was hitting on you, or putting the moves on you on the dance floor, you should have told him you were happily married and put him in his place instantly. Honey, let me give you a little advice, whenever you take wedding vows you not only make those vows or promises to each other, but you make them before God Almighty as well. Sweetie, having sex with another man while still married is adultery and very, very wrong in the eyes of the Lord. I have been there and done that in the past, before I became saved and no I'm not judging you for what you did, only advising you not do it again and also if you were woman enough to break your wedding vows and betray your husband like that, your woman enough to face the truth no matter what that consequences of your actions might be. You ignore these other people on here cause after all they are misleading you and lying to you. You know in your heart you were wrong and you know you should tell him the truth. Be prepared for a divorce on this one, but if he loves you enough he'll stay and work it out but highly unlikely, you think? Please put yourself in his place, how would you feel? What would you want him to do? Would you want him sleeping with another hot chick, probably in her preteens and not tell you, NO!!! You need to tell the truth now if you want to save your marriage at all.
2007-01-04 22:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey what were you thinking you crossed the line you man is a really nice guy (your own words ) but hey we all make mistakes in life that we regret. the fact that you have done this tells me that there is something that you are not happy about in your relationship maybe you just need to add some more spice into the bedroom department. there is no need to tell your husband just now as it will just devastate him but work at your marrage you have got some making up to do speak to your husband tell him what you would like to change in your marrage and ask him what he would like to change after all its about give and take and just work at it speak to the guy in your work let him know where things stand and that you are going to work on your marrage there is no point ignoring him afterall you do have to work with this guy 5 days a week good luck honey i hope this helps you xx
2007-01-04 22:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the Jerry Springer show !! You'll fit right in with all the other cheaters, liars, and in general, sick, freaky wierdos that contribute widely to the downfall of todays society.
2007-01-04 22:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Donot tell ur Husband abt this......... U Know Y ???????? Not because may be leave u But For He is such a nice person ""AS THIS I CAN UNDERSTAND THROGH THIS THAT WHILE U WAS DANCING WITH SOME ONE........ HE DID NOT KEEP EYE ON U"""" That shows that how he much Trust u........... U JUST TOTALLY ......Forget Abt that day &&& ur Office-mate............ Ignore ur Office-mate................& pls Love ur Hubby as he do........... """"""""""BUT IF U R SURE That IF U TELL THE TRUTH TO UR HUBBY HE WILL DEFINATELY FORGIVE U.......... THEN JUST GO.... & tELL HIM'''''''''''''' BUT DONT TELL HIM IF ANYTHING CAN HAPPENEd....................... ''''''''''Just Forget abt that day &&&&&&&&& make a new move in ur relationship.......... Do more care of him............Give more Love 2 Him............. """""""""""""U R SO LUCKY THAT THIS KIND OF HUBBY U GET""""""""""""""""""" GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! &&&&&&&&&&& JUST FORGET ABT THAT DAY........
2007-01-04 21:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend please. I wouldn't tell my hubby anything. What he dont know want hurt him. The best thing to do is to not do it any more. And try and do something with your hubby to get him aroused.
2007-01-05 03:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really think about it, if you tell him it will probably rip you're world apart, but if you don't tell him how will you be able to live with the guilt, think about it and you should know what to do.
2007-01-04 22:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by chrisw_nutter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! You should right romance novels. You got me hot. Keep it to yourself. Your hubby need never know.
2007-01-04 21:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a sl*t and i am sure this isnt the first time you screwed someone behind your husbands back.
2007-01-04 21:36:02 · answer #10 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋