IM SCARED - im 15 - im not long gone but i dont no how 2 tell my parents?

Question

this baby was a mistake, wat can i do help, i want 2 keep it tho

im so scared im thinkin bout runnin away 4 abit then texin them. da boi dont want baby but i do

so easy 2 just say oh mum im preggi

just wanna add thanks 4 all ya comments, i dnt hav any friends, da father dnt wanna no me, n im not very close to my mum

Answer 1

im 20 and 2 months ago had to tell my mum and i was TERRORFIED!! so i wimped out n txt her. admittly i live wid the father, but i was still crapping myself! i wuldn't advise running away as the stress isn't gd 4 u. y dnt u book a doc's appointment n tell the doc u want him/her 2 tell ur mum as u can't. then she won't lose it infront of the doc, if u need to get away from her u can cause its a public place, n if u get upset from what she's saying the doc'll ask her 2 wait outside, talk to u, then call ur mum in n talk thru it wiv her n calm her dwn!
i don't evn kno u and i admire the fact u can admit it was a mistake but one u're going to live up 2. congratulations btw, and good luck. once the baby's around she won;'t b angry, she'll b 2 busy going 'ahhhhhhhh, ain't it cute? my lil grand-child!'

Answer 2

Tell your parents, straight away, you need someone to talk to other than yahoo answers then you can put everything into perspective and decide what is the best thing you can do.
You say you would like to keep it but have you thought about the consequences it will have on your life you 15 and you will miss out on the best years of your life which will normally start when you 17 18 and finish when you 26 27, when all your friends are enjoying life to the max travelling etc you will be bringing up a child,
Im not really for abortion the idea makes me sick but your so young and you have the rest of your life to have a baby.
Ultimately the decision is up to you and I hope you have the help to make the right one for your self and the baby.

Good luck xx

Answer 3

Whether you keep the baby or not either way you need the support of somebody through this time to help you make the right choices. Do not run away, you will feel even more alone. Find somebody you can talk to, take them with you when you tell your parents, the support will help you. If your parents react badly at first you will have somebody close at hand. Your parents reaction may surprise you & they may support you through this even though you feel they may not. Dont be put off if at first they act badly, it will be a shock for them too. Sit down with them & explain calmly what has happened. Explain you are telling them because you are scared, you need their help & advice, you know you have not got yourself into a good situation and you have made a mistake but right now you need them to understand as best they can. Take care x

Answer 4

Oh mate that's hard, I was in your position 18 years ago but I was 17 and I had already run away. I wrote my mum a letter and she was and still is FANTASTIC. But thats my mum, whats your relationship with your mum like???

I love my daughter but believe me we had it hard, being a young teenage single mum is incredibly difficult. Financial security, finishing your education, having a career, being able to do all the things your friends are doing are all things that you will have to put on hold.

Think long and hard about what you want to do with your life babe, cos maybe now isn't the right time to have a child. I know that to you 15 is old enough and mature enough to handle a baby but remember a baby is only a baby for a very short time they very quickly grow into children and really you are still a child. I thought I was mature enough to do it and I made plenty of mistakes and my relationship with my daughter suffered as a result.

Answer 5

First of all good on you, wanting to keep the baby! You made the right decision already, so that is a good start. I am a mom of a `16 year old and I have warned my daughter not to get pregnant and pointed out to her if she is going to have sex with a guy she must get protection first, basically I can tell you I was really strict about the whole thing but although I would not tell her this, if it ever happened to her I would be right there beside her supporting her (yes she would have to listen to me being a major pain in the butt giving out to her after the initial shock, this is the mom part of us doing our job although you hate it) but hey! what else can we do after that, only calm down and help you.
This is what you need to do. Go downstairs to your parents and tell them that you need to talk, that you have something to say and have been too scared to say it, and then tell them you are pregnant, you must go and do it today, dont drag it out for yourself.
You will need to see a doctor and did you know things like you should be taking folic acid for the good of your baby. The first few months is a very important time for baby.

Check out this site to find out about pregnancy
http://www.rollercoaster.ie/channels/pregnancy.asp
hey feel free to send me a message if you need to know anything.

Your parents will find out anyway so come on get it over with, you can do it, good luck!

Sending you a really big squeezy hug
Sam

Answer 6

Could you maybe talk to one of your mums closest friends and see if she can tell her for you , or do you have any aunts ?? Your mum may be shocked and angry at first but at the end of the day you are her baby and i`m sure she`ll give you the support you need ... eventually .

I have a 16 yr old and if she came home preg i don`t know how i would react but i would still love her .. dunno about dad tho ! Thats another story..

Good Luck ... the sooner you get it out in the open the better ..

Answer 7

ok its very important that u tell the parent u are closest to im 16 and my 14 yr old m8 had the sameproblem sit them down explain it was a mistake turn on the waterworks and thell them wats hapnd and that ur scared bt expalin u want to keep the baby! secondly do youwant to kp the bby these next yr or 2 in skl(wether u yr 10 or 11) are importan withourt gcses u dnt hevmuch of a career! im ded setagainst abortion bt u are young! email me andi will talk to u xxblodzyxx be brave darlin xxx

Answer 8

the best thing to do is to tell your parents by law they can not choose what u do with your baby my parents were really upset at first but now they cant wait until there grandson is born and you should never think about giving the baby away unless it would be best for both of you and if you run away you will not go to doctor and other things that you should be doing to make sure your baby is healthy and nothing is wrong you should think about you and the baby and no baby is a miss take they are an unplanned blessing

Answer 9

Honestly the best thing to do is let them know. If ur scared to tell them then if u wish try this,

Write a note which explains about everything you wish to tell them, leave it on their bed or wherever they'll see it and go out for the whole day (mayb when you go to school or anywhere), by the time u get home in the evenin they shouldn't be that mad and no matter what, they'll still love you cause they are your parents.

God bless and good luck*

Answer 10

I was 16 when i first had a baby, i thought my mum and dad would go up te wall at me, but they were really quite understanding about it all, it seems like a big deal now, but believe me teen pregnancy isn't the end of the world, its best just to ask them to sit down and say that you didn't mean or it to happen, but everyone makes mistakes, and just tell them your pregnant, they may be a little mad at first, but they'll calm down soon enough, good luck :D