I am a 18 year old boy,born and brought up in California,U.S.A.
I have redish blonde hair (The style is like my avatar).I am very fair, like any U.S citizen and have turquoise (blue) eyes.My height is 5'9.I am not boasting but I think I have got a charming smile, forming dimples on my face.I come from a well-reputated,rich family.All the girls like me,but theres a certain girl named ,Tina who I like a lot.But she is very silent and is very uncomfortable with boys.She talks to me often,though.She has a wonderful voice, pleasing manners and killer looks!One day we both were talking when a few girls started flirting with me!She had a bad impression,even though I dont even know those girls.
Please tell how to regain my good impression.I cant help having quite a lot of girls hanging around me.As I gave you my details before,please tell if something is wrong in my personality.
2007-01-04 20:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by roughdude_16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey!I NEVER flirted back!I simply ignored them!And as for my looks I just gave you some details,thats ALL!
2007-01-05 20:44:40 · update #1
YES!!!!!!! There is something wrong.
I have a friend and he is just one of those guys that all the girls love. I don't know another guy so freakin good looking. Anyway he is not full of himself and the girls love his modesty. I know that some girls flirt with him,but he never flirts back. THAT'S WHY WE LIKE HIM.He is in love with another girl and he only has eyes for her
You're too full of yourself. She wouldn't have had a bad impression if you did not maybe FLIRT BACK!!!!!!!!!
Tina won't look at you because you're too full of yourself. There's nothing worse than being with a guy who thinks he's good-looking.
Every time I meet a guy like that I run. I would rather date a guy that's not so good-looking but stil modest,those are the best and most fun people to be around with.
2007-01-04 22:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You speak very strange for having been brought up in CA. Anyway, on to your problem. Tina is probably a little self conscious about something. She may not feel great either about her looks, clothes, losing your interest, whatever. She also sounds very, very shy. This is something she'll have to learn to deal with. What you can do is when you're with her, give her your undivided attention. Tell her how you feel about her, how great she looks, etc. You didn't say how old she was, but as she gets older, she'll feel more comfortable with herself.
2007-01-12 18:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you can help not having girls hanging on you by not showing interest in them. As long as there is a glitter of hope for other girls they will approach you or flirt with you.
Well how did you react to those flirts? I think that is what you have to ask yourself. Obviuosly, whether in your eyes, smile, or reply to the flirts Tina saw you as being disrespectful to her or brought out jealousy. Maybe she has no self-confidence thus questioning her ability to "compete" for your attention.
Either way show Tina attention, show that you care.
2007-01-04 21:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by chubbycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your with that someone special you will realize that giving her that attention is worth the while....instead of giving it to the girls that were flirting..
She was uncomfortable no doubt.
However if she is as sweet as you say, try calling her or asking her out on a date...one on one....no interruptions.
You can still be a hottie with good looks and display manners at the same time...its called being a gentlemen.
Good luck and best wishes
2007-01-04 21:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As bad as it seems, people blessed (or cursed) with good looks and natural charm sometimes have to work harder to be 'believed'. I have a good friend who is the most handsome bartender in my city, and he is constantly told what a player he is, how much play he gets and how he's beating the chicks off with a stick...when really, he's the most sensitive, intelligent and loyal person you could imagine. He hates the fact that people judge him by his looks. Just be nice and all will be well
2007-01-12 12:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by C Shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an ego bigger than Ben Hur, she probably is too good for you. All you seem to need is a mirror and you will be very happy.
So Mr Charming come down a few pegs and you might get a genuine relationship that is more than just you.
2007-01-04 21:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really cute and if i wasnt so outgoing i would be nervous to. But start out just becoming her friend and just take things slowly, Go to the movies in large groups and take her as a friend. I am sure she will losen up after a while. It depends how hard you try... LoVe Ella
2007-01-12 07:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by roxi_chick2017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear rough,
simply tell tina that you have some feelings for her and if she doesnt feel the same way about you then just move on in life and one day you are going to get married and have some kids and live well! best of luck!
2007-01-12 19:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by luvmattledbetter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really really like Tina then you should make her feel as comfortable as possible...in this caseby deflecting the flirtacious advances of those passing girls...anything that will make her MORE shy has got to go!
2007-01-04 20:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty Grrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to the girl (The one u like ) and just tell her the truth.
2007-01-12 13:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by West-Lnds-Finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋