What is more important to you, physical attraction or and emotional/personality connection?

Question

I'm doing a college project and could use some opinions

Answer 1

Emotional/ personality connection.

Answer 2

Emotional/personality connection. Dont judge the book by its cover. But it is much better to have a good physical attraction and at the same good emotional / personality.

Answer 3

At first it always starts out with some physical connection. But in long run I would like emotional/personality connection.

Answer 4

Emotional/personality connection is waaay more important to me. Physical attraction is way too fleeting, although we're probably designed to be more physically attracted to each other than anything else. But if that physical attraction isn't backed up by any personal, emotional connection, things probably won't work out

Answer 5

I know that I am not a so called "enlightened" person, but I try to put mental and emotional attration before the physical one, but the truth is, is that if there is not at least some physical attraction, your relationship is just not going to work. Im sorry to seem so shallow but it is the truth, you cant base an entire relationship off how you connect mentaly, youve still got to have some of that raw and dirty LUST.

Answer 6

Emotional

Answer 7

Physical attraction of course is a must but once you meet a person there has to be an emotional attraction in order to keep it together

Answer 8

An emotional/personality connection is much more important in the long run.

Answer 9

Emotional/personality connection is more important because without it there's no reason for me to spend time with someone, even if she's physically attractive.

Answer 10

well...i believe emotional and personality connection is the most important because you can only stare at a person for so long. Eventually, you'll want to actually have a conversation.