6-8 months ago, me and my girlfriend had a abortion as we felt it was the right thing to do at the time,we have been together 4 years on and off - i have decided to move to the US with work in 2 months and she decided she was going to Cyrus with her friend.
I finally broke it off with her after many times trying , in the past she has threatened to hurt her serlf and basically forces me to be with her. - i have always been worried for her so i try and help her, i finally broke it off 3 days ago as i just cant take us being together any more, its not all her fault but whatever i just cant, argue anymoore, or fight anymore and she wont give in - she wants me to stay with her unitl she says she is leaving in a month to have some happy memories - anyhow when i broke it off she told me next day she has a consultation with an abortion clinic and will pay for it on her own , do it on her own and she knows i wouldnt want the baby anyway-she has a rod,we have used condoms
2007-01-04 20:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by JDA 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Instead of trying to do guesswork on Yahoo Answers, might I suggest telling her to take a pregnancy test with you there? If she refuses, that, in and of itself, is a pretty good indication that she's not pregnant.
What's this chick trying to do? Trap you in a miserable long distance relationship? Any long distance relationship is miserable, and most are doomed for failure, but this relationship sounds like it's been falling apart for a while. Does she really want to add the distance to it?
At any rate, I think that you should accompany her to a clinic, or make her take a test in front of you. If she can't do that, then I would call her a liar and walk away.
2007-01-05 02:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well I was on the rod for the past 3 years and from my experience no matter how long she has had the rod in her arm she wouldnt be pregnant. I know these contraceptives aint 100% but if they werent i would be pregnant i million time now. We also used condoms so i doubt it. However, make sure she hasnt taken it out to try and make a sly move without you knowing. I mean i took my rod out on the 4th of september 06 and fell pregnant on the 24th of september 06 so it only takes 20 days if not less i guess. It would all be bout the timing. But still just to amke sure make her take a test and show you. If not dude get out and run. Hope i helped you.
2007-01-04 20:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Little Mis Noddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont really understand - i think you uys had an abortion a while ago and now she is saying shes preg again? To answer your question, there is always a veyr very very very very slim chance of falling preg with a rod and with condoms, it can happen. however, judging by her mental state it is also possible she is saying it for your attention perhaps? I dont think you'd be out of line to ask for proof - or ask to go with her to the doc to confirm it.
2007-01-04 20:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say she isn't pregnant she is saying it to get you to feel sorry for her cause she has to go though an abortion again. don't believe her but be there for her cause its hard to have an abortion even if its the right thing. talk to her and try and leave it as good friend between you guys. wish you luck mate
2007-01-08 11:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's mentally manipulating you. Dude, ask for proof, it's unlikely you're going to have a bub. Those things in the arm are pretty accurate.
2007-01-04 23:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sis has one of those in her arms and she told me it was 100% safe ???? also if u used condoms do u think she is doing this so u will stay with her ???
2007-01-04 20:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by >--Trace---> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah cos killing the unborn is always "the right thing to do"....How sad.
2007-01-04 20:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by naughtiest_nurse_of_em_all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not 100% but its close. anything can happen.
2007-01-04 20:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Louise 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋