Omgosh, my sister just told me that she had unprotected sex!!! What should I tell her???

Question

My 15 year-old sister just told me that she did it with her boyfriend! I've never done it, so i don't know what to tell her. She's so scared and so am I! She'll be disowned if our parents found out!!! O_o Is there anyway to get EC (I've learned about this in Health class...Hehe) without your parent or guardian knowing...I'm actually a minor too, so would I be able to take her to go get it??? Please help!!!

Answer 1

Well first I would say you seem a little mean to post your sister's business on here, but I guess your doing it to get her help. If she were worried you'd think she'd do it though, but to your questions:

If she had unprotected sex and she's 15 then YES she can get the EC pill also known as "plan B" and "the morning after pill" without anyone knowing. You can go to Planned Parenthood but the downside is that it will most likely cost you money, when I went I think I was told it was $40, or something like $40 for the first pill and $40 for the 2nd pill(it comes in a 2 pill form). I'm not really sure the lady confused me, but if you go in there and tell them you don't have a job and your age and you don't have a parent with you more than likely they'll do it for free or charge you reallyy low. (She'll need to get this within 5 days, the sooner the better!) <-- if it's past the 5 days of intercourse, wait it out for her period to come unfortunatly and test. But do NOT skip the next thing below, that's very important to do!

You'll also want to talk to her about getting tested for any diseases or infections. And it won't be just one test, it will be a few tests. She'll have to go to a gyno or Planned Parenthood, it'll be like papsmear done to look for anything and then also get blood drawn to get tested for hiv/aids.

She needs to know what she has gotten herself into, she needs to be worried not only about pregnancy but for std's and sti's.

Wish you both luck!

Answer 2

Unprotected sex can be dangerous. I can't stress enough how unimportant sex is in a relationship. Especially when both people are minors. It is possible to have a nice relationship without sex. But this is a past event and needs attention.

I'd advise her taking tests for STDs, and a pregnancy test (perhaps 2). I don't know what the chances are of getting pregnant from only one time, but there are chances. The parents should be told, but if you really don't think they'd understand...

Answer 3

Unprotected sex can be dangerous. I can't stress enough how unimportant sex is in a relationship. Especially when both people are minors. It is possible to have a nice relationship without sex. But this is a past event and needs attention.

I'd advise her taking tests for STDs, and a pregnancy test (perhaps 2). I don't know what the chances are of getting pregnant from only one time, but there are chances. The parents should be told, but if you really don't think they'd understand...

Answer 4

-I think you should leave your house and sit down and just talk to her in private. Tell her that she might not be ready for sex yet and about the risk of pregnancy, stds, and aids. I don't know about EC.
-You might be able to possibly talk to a school counselor for more insight for your sister and you might even be able to talk to one without saying it's your sister having sex. Just tell her a friend had unprotected sex and ask what you should say/do.
-If she is only 15 she can't really be in love and this is something that can wait.
-Maybe pray for more guidance and DON"T tell your mom or dad.

Answer 5

tell her to go to plan parenthood and get tested for std's and later on pregnancy. plan parenthood is totally free and they don't contact your parents. and for you sister...... if everything turns out okay.... dont be stupid next time. tell him no glove ...? no love. got it. some **** you can get ..you die. and as far as pregnancy... your parents will totally flip who knows what theyll do. and only at 15? you still ahve a whole life a head of you, but when you have a kid while you still one say good buy to senior prom... your now working with another child hood. i went through that ****. dont mess up. think.

Answer 6

Go to planned parenthood (there should be one near you - go look in the phone book) and get an STD test. You can probably get Plan B there too - and some condoms, while you're at it, so she won't make this mistake again.

Answer 7

If she doesn't want to get pregnant, have her go to Family Planning and get the morning after pill ASAP!!! Also, have her request anti-biotics for any STD that may have been transferred. Then show her a bunch of pictures of pregnant women with stretch marks and herpes infected genatalia. That should straighten her out!!!

Answer 8

The local health clinics has pamphlets about HEB A,B, C & D... HIV, STD etc etc. Get them and give them to her. She has to know that pregnancy is not the only problem that comes from unprotected sex.

Answer 9

She has to own up to her own mistakes. You can be by her side and support her, but she has to do it alone or with the boy she did this with. I know you want to try to do everything for her, but you have to face the fact that you can't either. For anyone to learn a lesson they have to face the music themselves. Trust me, my 30 year old sister lives with me, and every time she gets herself into trouble she comes to me, and I try my best to do whatever I can and yet I ignore my own life. You have to fight your own battles.
Tough Love. I know that seems harsh, but can you see yourself in the years to come being there for her, your kids, and your husband? She may be only 15, but she has your parents. You are too young to take this on yourself.
All you can do is be her shoulder to cry on.

Answer 10

First smack her up side the head, because you care. Then make her go on the net and do all the research in the world on std's, the pic's i mean. That will make her think twice. EC??Depending where you live