2007-01-04 19:04:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For starters, you answered you own question at "disorders"...if you know he is damaged goods with problems and you accept that, you accept the consequences of those problems. Just be sure what you are getting yourself into before you truly commit to marriage. To be attention deficit means he cannot concentrate on any thing for any period of time and combining that with Hyperactivity disorder that means life is in super-speed, combined with not being able to concentrate. He likely is not able to hold a job, commit to a relationship or anything else for more than 5 mins.
Worse yet, if it truly is a "disorder" and not just a side affect from cocaine, meth, or heroin, which is frequently the case, the "disorder" is hereditary...that means not only will you deal with a ADHD hubby, your kids may be ADHD also.
2007-01-04 19:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm ADHD (from day one :P), and that i think of if he's elementary with ho to handle specific circumstances linked with ADHD alongside with sensitivity with sugar and distractedness and such, then that is going to likely be large. who's elementary with, you will possibly have the wonderful time of your existence :) if not one of the above, its not sturdy or undesirable, that is going to easily make the marriage extra complicated. you could want some treatment training with the two certainly one of you present day so as which you will help one yet another. Being ADHD isn't undesirable... in specific circumstances its a present day. BTW... taking meds for that is damaging based on the guy. some meds have too many area effects to handle (the undesirable out-weighs the forged). i might seek for numerous expert advisers in this concern. having the incorrect meds could make a huge distinction. i might go away meds as a final motel in my opinion. i've got had undesirable adventure with meds. lower back person based
2016-12-15 16:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by miracle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the severity and if he is being treated for it. It's a consideration, that's for sure, but no dealbreaker. ADD sufferers can bring great things to a relationship but there's definately downsides as well. I grew up with family members having ADD. It is my view that every one of us has a mental "illness" of some sort...the only difference is in severity and if it is diagnosable.
2007-01-04 19:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure !
why not ?
2007-01-04 19:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by luckylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋