my boyfriend (is he this?) is divorced since 2 years, we are together 5,5 years. he still lives with her exwife and his daughter. I can´t understand why, he told me he loves me, but I don´t think so, if he would, he would live with me, not with her! I was really patient, but this is too long even for me. he tells me he doesn´t love her, but....
2007-01-04 18:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by witch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow.... sounds like he can't escape or has a really hard time being honest with himself.
If he is still with her his actions are saying a lot. Obviously it isn't a situation he is finding difficult to stay in. This should be an indication to you that your wait may be endless.
It is also true that since he cheated on his wife he may be doing so again, just not with you anymore.
It could as easily be that no one has told his daughter what is going on so they play an elaborate game of "pretend" to try and protect her from the emotional roller-coaster of divorce.
Either way, there isn't any way I would wait. You have a life and if he isn't in it then you need not be in his. It's your choice.
2007-01-04 19:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by scorpio1913 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is having his cake and eating it too. This is what happens when you start dating a man that is already taken by someone else. You need to find a single man to fall in love with. It sounds as if the divorce was just one of those steps that a couple take, but realize after it is over that is really wasn't what they wanted at all. I hate to tell you this, but it sounds as if you will always be the second fiddle. Although you and he are the ones who did wrong by starting this affair before he was no longer a married man that no longer remained in the picture of the ex wife, which many people would think that you deserve what is happening to you; it doesn't mean you don't deserve someone that will be there for you always. Quit seeing a man that you have to make an appointment to see; it is time to move on with your life, without him. Think about this: Even if he did move in with you, eventually he will more than likely cheat on you to.
2007-01-05 02:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Why are you messing with a man who has kids? Imagine being one of his daughters and seeing a honey at his side that isn't mommie how would you feel?
2007-01-05 02:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that he lives with his ex answers your question. What's his excuse? Oh...to be close to his daughter?? No. If it doesn't make sense, then it's not true. He's now having his cake (you) and eating it too (her). You're not giving yourself enough credit. Confront him and make him make a decision.
2007-01-05 02:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by D-Midnight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will never let her go!he might love you,but he loves her more,move on,find someone who will want only you,you deserve it! his ex wife probably has a boyfreind too,they're wierd?run run run!
2007-01-05 04:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt still love HER he wouldnt be with her.find a real man that will love and commit to you and you only
2007-01-05 02:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG
YOU BELIEVE HIM?????????????
Do you have the word FOOL written across your forhead.
He will NEVER be YOURS.
2007-01-05 03:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wakeup your dreaming...
2007-01-05 03:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by j d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating and using you...
2007-01-05 02:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by sourabh_gupta2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋