I have two friends A and B, which A is dating the girlfriend of B, but both of them are by best friends and I don't want lose them.
The problem is I have advise A to stop but he doesn't seam to understand and am affreid of B reaction when he would know.
So what would I do if things cames out?
2007-01-04 18:02:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ouch, this is touchy! Well, my advice is that it is not fair to you to have to hold on to such a secret. Knowing about this affair is probably eating you up inside. Do yourself and both your friends a favor and tell friend B. It's hard, but if friend A is truly your friend, he would understand that putting you in the position to keep such a secret is not good for you. If he does not consider you (and obviously he does not consider Friend B), then he is not a friend at all, but a selfish, back-stabbing lowlife that isn't good enought to get a girl of his own.
2007-01-04 18:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by msvietpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i wouldn't trust friend A, a person who doesn't respect some boundaries isn't worth to have as a friend. Don't get involve in this problem, when things come out don't take anybody side.
2007-01-04 18:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by indie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be best to let A and B solve it out themselevs cuz if you get into it it might turn out that you have to choose between A or B so let them deal with it and if B asks you did you know or somethin? i'm not going to tell you to say no and lie but let him know gently that you had your suspicions. i hope that helps!!!
2007-01-04 18:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by OkieOk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there look what has it got to do with you ......if you start getting involved with A and B and get inbetween then and they find out that you have been medling they will fall out not with each other but with you ........do youre self a favour and have a chat to them both .....and stay out of the rest and let them get on with it .....take care xx
2007-01-04 18:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HINKY PINKY always get out some way some how.If you dont watch out you cought be cought in the middle.
2007-01-04 18:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not ur prob
2007-01-04 18:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell B. but ? (please e-mail back...) is the girl dating B too?
2007-01-04 18:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by figureskater&awsome! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋