2007-01-04 17:23:43 · 28 answers · asked by GERALD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for all the comments & suggestion you gave. I'll do all your suggestions. Thanks for the help.
2007-01-04 17:50:38 · update #1
Show her that she's the only one in this life time that matters.Explain you made ahuge mistake and are willing to take the steps to fix what made you screw up in the first place.Tell her without loving her in this life theres just no other reason for you to be here.Tell her it took you losing the best thing you had to realize what your life really meant with her-EVERYTHING.Argue we all make mistakes but this wasn't just a mistake this was a life altering experience,I hurt you and realized that my whole life is meant for us to be together and I'll do what I said in my vows forever to the end,I know i have a long way to go just don't say no and I'll never let you down this way again!!!!!!! Try and see if that works goodluck!
2007-01-04 17:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by pookie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come on, give us some help here! You make it sound like you lost her in a poker game. We need pertinent information like how old are the two of you, how long have you been married, are there kids involved. What caused the split-up--did you cheat on her or is she having an affair and you still love her and are willing to take her back. If that's the case, tell her that with as much feeling as you can. If you're the one that strayed, then it may take a lot longer than you'd like. Whatever the scenario, if it's a matter of infidelity talk to her about setting up counseling sessions for the both of you to find out why one or the other cheated, how to prevent further lapses, and how to regain trust and faith.
Interesting note: I just reread your question. You ask what WILL you do, not what should I do. Are you implying you already have options and you're mulling them over? If that's the case, then again, you've got to give us something to work with if you want anyone to help you. It may be just a matter of semantics, but...
2007-01-05 01:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by goldie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what went wrong. My ex-husband wants us to re-marry.We were married for 17 years.The communication between us stopped, we had 2 children to raise and we kind of forgot to think about each other. We just got used to each other. My ex would also storm off and not try to resolve our issues. Men don't like to discuss or talk things out ,humor us sometimes.treat us with respect. An I am sorry goes a long way. A flower or a nice card just because. Now if you cheated on her, the ball is in her court and you might just get what you deserve. Write her a letter let her know how you feel about her, maybe she will agree to counseling...... Good Luck
2007-01-05 01:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by mean evil woman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really you cant win nobody back.It about the love that was already there true love is hard to fine you cant buy love are win it back you only can fix the mistakes and start over with the love you already share.If the person dont understand that mean thats not your soulmate.
2007-01-05 01:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by lucycrip2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have not divorced your wife and if you have simply been separated, you can have your wife back. To achieve this end you will have to go to her and speak with her gently and try to be as courteous as possible. You should be attentive and also patient to listen some of her harsh words. Do not reply such words but keep quite. She will gradually cool down and will be back to you. Good Luck.
2007-01-05 01:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't win her back she is not a prize or possession, perhaps that is why she left in the first place. If she won't agree to go through counseling with you and work things out there is little you can do, sorry.
2007-01-05 01:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she a prize to win? What did she leave you for? Ask her what did you or didn't you do. And ask her, will she come back if you were to do or stop doing what she has asked of you.
People don't leave for no reason, so find out why she left and correct that problem.
If that doesn't work, then go and kidnapp her.
2007-01-05 01:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should get up of you tush and say i love u and only you you are my sunshine my life my world and my lover i will love you and care for u i made a promise to love u all my life and it still stand. IT STANDS FOR EVER.take her out on a date do thing for her she never seen some thing amazing and wonderful make her wish she has it and it here and she is never going to find another men like u.good luck!!!!!
2007-01-05 02:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by mary ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why she left you, if it's worth the trouble.or you want her cause she's a habit you've gotten used to...
.People leave because they are"DONE with the relationship.it takes tons of work to repair things that may have gone wrong....The work has to be done by both of the people involved......
2007-01-05 01:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by cesare214 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends why she left, if it because she is now in love with another it may be difficult, if she left due to stress or unresolved problems, than change what is wrong, show her love, by actions not words. talk to her communicate with her, ask her where it all went wrong, and what u can do to save it.
2007-01-05 01:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋