My ex boyfriend is getting ready to have a baby, when I first found out I was hurt very much. But with help from God, and my family I'm starting to come to terms with it. My ex's new girl doesn't like me because she feels threaten by me, she feel's I'm her competition(But I'm Not). Now their baby is due next month February, so my question is would it be wrong for me to send a baby gift. Even though she doesn't like me?
2007-01-04 17:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes,you would make her feel uncomfortable.Your heart may be in the right place but no to this one.
2007-01-04 17:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you are sending a gift to the baby or trying to make brownie points with your ex. Maybe the best thing would be to move on and leave them alone. Your gift will only cause grief in a time when they should be elated Your gift might only be trying to get his attention back to you. If you really want to give the baby something you could always send a gift card without signing it. That way you know you did something nice for the baby and it won't cause any upsets with the mom and dad. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 01:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would be terribly wrong for you to have any contact with your ex-boyfriend, including sending a baby gift to his child. You should get over him and move on. Doing anything else will hurt his relationship with the mother of his child, his child and him. Since you know the mother of his child doesn't want you around, why do you insist on seeing him? Ask your religious leader what they think about this. If you really want God's help, pray, talk with your parents and with others you respect for their wisdom. God may speak to you through them.
How old are you to have all this drama in your life anyway? It may be time to talk with the wise people in your life about the type of people you call friends. What kind of a guy would have a baby without first getting married? What kind a woman would have sex with a man before getting married? Are you that type of a woman?
2007-01-05 01:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mark W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a tough one!!! If i were to send something i would just make it a card address to the both of them. But i am not sure that would be the best thing either. That may cause them some stress. If i were you i would just try to leave it alone...cause he has moved on and it looks as though you have to.. I would think that it is time to leave the past in the past.. Cause i am sure the last thing you would want to do is to cause them problems.
2007-01-05 01:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see anything wrong in sending a baby gift to the soon-to-be parents.i would on the other hand address it to the girl and send a card with it telling her that you are happy and your best wishes on the baby.
2007-01-05 01:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay out of their life... B/c dont even ACT like you want to be friends when clearly in your question i can tell you hate that he is having a baby and moving on with someone else...
Its easier on them and you if you just stop talking to them completely, stay out of their lives, and start worrying about taking care of yourself. You will find someone who is better than him.. you are just stressed out b/c of the situation he is in.. and its making you depressed.
Move on. Not only that, you will be causing trouble in their relationship, which i know you probably dont care.. and would probably smile evily like the Grinch if you thought him and her were fighting over you, but she's pregnant, and your not.. so its over between you two. Besides, would you really want to get back with him, knowing that he is tied to this girl forever through a child... his FIRST child...?
2007-01-05 01:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by yo mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would just stay out.It's pretty obvious you DO still have feelings for him.Of course she feels threatned by you you once had something with her babys father.This is not totally uncommon.Just move on honey!There's someone out there for you!
2007-01-05 01:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by lady2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... forget about her for a second,what does your ex feel about all this? If he gives the go ahead, do it.
2007-01-05 01:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are phased out...I think you would just be doing it to kind of keep up apperances. Leave them alone. I am married and looking if you prefer taken men.
2007-01-05 01:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's not wrong... it's a nice gesture to do..
2007-01-05 01:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by msweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋