beautiful people are attractive. others pamper them. they get all the benefital attentions and adventages. on the other hand, the so call "ugly" or regular people arent so much different from them. we are all humans, sharing over 99.9999% of genes. so, this beauty different is being magnified and exaggerated.
dont you think beautiful girls and hot/handsome guys are pampered too much? is there any way to make life more fair?
2007-01-04 17:06:37 · 12 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
love urself buddy!! once u start loving urself as u r questions like this will be of no importance to ur life..everybody is perfect in his/her own way...
2007-01-04 17:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by gomsi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life is a reflection of your perspective. Not everyone worships the externally "beautiful" people. Although they do receive many benefits there are also drawbacks. If you were one of those people how would you ever know who truly liked you and who only wanted to use your "power" for their own benefit? What happens to those people as they grow older as we all do?
Others treat you the way you believe you deserve to be treated. Love yourself and feel worthy and others will treat you with respect. Focus on being the best "you" you can be. Give much and learn to appreciate all your blessings. In life, whatever you focus on is increased. Focus only on what you desire. Give no thoughts or energy to anything that you don't want multiplied.
Listen carefully to your "self talk". Stop any negative thoughts as soon as you recognize them. Have a specific word to cancel those thoughts out. I use "cancel, cancel". You could use "delete, delete" or "replace, replace" or anything else that works for you. The instant a negative thought comes to you, use your words and replace that thought with a positive one.
As you yourself have noticed, there is very little physical difference between the "beautiful people" and the "average people". All people are born lovable and loving. Take positive actions to feel good about yourself. When you accept and love yourself, others will too.
2007-01-05 01:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by flyingrosetb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life is unfair...no matter where he run.
Beautiful people do have an advantage, compared to "ugly" people. Most employers might even hired them due to looks rather than thier qualifications. However, if you think about it, these types of people are kinda unfortunate. There's a saying that Beauty is a curse, more than a blessing.
There's some cases where beautiful people are "headhunted" from so-called "model agencies"....and end up they're being sold off as prostitutes and such.
It's a pity really.......
2007-01-05 01:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure seems that the physically attractive get opportunities that the rest of us don't. But I think the best way to make life more fair is to practice objectivity and fairness in your own life. Who knows what might happen.
2007-01-05 01:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but whether you personally could achieve it or not I wouldn't have the foggiest. You would have to take over all the major corporations without corrupting yourself in the process and then work outward on society from there.
2007-01-05 02:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by superpsychicman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it life is not fair. It's a matter of how you handle yourself in different situations---how you cope up with reality. After all, I've seen a lot of "not-so-good-looking" people of various races and economic status still enjoying themselves. In addition to that, I've also noticed how a lot of super-dead-gorgeous people in the world crumble with difficulty in other aspects like let's say in their academic standing, love life, financial well-being, health, spiritual stuffs---you name it! Life is not fair but it has it's own way of balancing itself. There's what we call "Balance of Nature".
2007-01-05 02:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Antigone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see your thinking we should all be treated equally and we can be if we had no intelligence. Look at how we treat cows, they all are equal. Oops, even thats not true, male cows get casterated unless there is a need for bulls, you know sperm givers. It is theoretically possible to live without classifying people, but its unnatural.
2007-01-05 01:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat others the way you want to be treated and I know how you feel guys hit on girls cause they are hot, but girls like my friends and I get treated properly because guys don't hit on us because we are very very very hot cause they like our personality and we get to know them before we start going out with them (but i never said we weren't hot and I was goofying off when I made my avatar.
2007-01-05 01:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what's fair is that people are allowed to pamper who they want to pamper.
2007-01-05 01:17:35 · answer #9 · answered by ragdefender 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i don't know if there is anyway to make life fair becasue if something is fair to one person it's not going to be to the other person. i have a crush on a cute guy the only reason i don't want to tell him is because i am ugly. so it's not fair
2007-01-05 01:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by 2nice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋