i was at homecoming and my crush asked me to dance. Well i was wearing a long strapless dress and when we were slow dancing he steped on my dress and pulled it down about half way down my boob i dont know if more showed because i grabed it as soon as i could and i wasnt wearing bra since the dress had a long back that would of shown the back strap. I know he saw my boob and i think some other people saw it to. But now i know he is going around and bragging to his friends on what he saw. what would you do?
2007-01-04 17:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by Hakuna Matata 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Give him a tight slap.
Cry foul and tell people that he did that on purpose.
There's no point in liking a guy who doesn't treat you right.
2007-01-04 17:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by xxon_23 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be classy. Don't bring it up, to him or anyone else. If someone else talks about it, act like it's no big deal and he's just an immature if he's making it into one. Act as though you are 100% comfortable and not embarrassed in the slightest. Laugh at yourself a little, but don't act embarrassed or in any way affected.
Believe me, this always always works. I have been in endless situations which were sooo obviously embarrassing, and the only way I could ever find to stop it escalating is to just act like I didn't see why it was supposed to be such a big deal.
If you do this, people will stop talking. It's only interesting to them if the victim of the gossip actually cares.
2007-01-05 01:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by - 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do absolutely nothing.
He's acting a bit immature, but IF he's doing that he's obviously reckoning that what he saw, albeit accidentally, was very attractive and worth boasting about.
Ignore the fact that the incident happened. After all, if you go braless you know you run the risk of your breasts being seen.
2007-01-08 07:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!
first you should go up to him and ask him what he has been saying to his friends...
then forget him if he is a perv.. i know it isnt easy to just stop liking someone.. but try.. dont talk to him if he continues to make comments.. soon he will be out of your mind...
hope this hlps...
2007-01-05 02:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sushi Roll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was a girl, i would just forget the whole thing happened. plus, hes your "crush" shouldnt you be happy, i mean, now he would like you. if you think hes being a perv, forget him. thats what i would do, and i would start cussing a him and get really mad at him and call him a perv all day, if i didn'g like him anymore.
2007-01-05 01:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look for another boyfriend because he shouldn't be bragging to his friends about something like that.
2007-01-05 01:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by garagesalefree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just wouldn't consider him a crush anymore. If he really was something special he would have respect for you and that embarrassing subject.
2007-01-05 01:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by starsperhaps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhh...my ...gaaaawd!!....****....i sympathize with you!...i think there really isn't too much to do in such a situation except to buck up...take it in your stride...you may hv to tolerate a few "looks"... for a while...but keep in mind..."this too shall pass"
oh n be carefull the next time....besides that ...if ur crush isa "nice" guy....maybe you could ask him to keep it down....wht else?...or you could go aroud with him.....but im not sure if THT will help... :)
2007-01-05 01:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like nothing ever happened and people will stop caring before you know it.
2007-01-05 01:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by patriciamariegrant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let it get to you, if it does, dont let it show around others. they will only keep on bringing it up if they realize you are bothered or embarrassed by it. someone else will mess up or goof up and they'll move on to that!
2007-01-05 01:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by astrother812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋