How could debby do that?
2007-01-04 16:43:41 · 17 answers · asked by sa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, you can beat yourself up forever. Or just regret it as a bad choice and remember the happy times when the puss-ee was good and regular.
2007-01-04 17:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You feel awful having dated a married woman...you should. But I don't get the sub question "How could Debby do that?" makes no sense unless you mean she had lied to you and said she was single. In 6 months you never had any idea she was married? Did she let you call her at home? Pick her up at home? etc. etc. If that is the case, you should have known something was wrong and questioned her more or investigated her life a bit. Be more careful the next time you meet a woman.
2007-01-04 16:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say, if you knew she was married then what changed to make you feel bad suddenly?
If you did not know she was married and it was a complete lie all on her part, then chalk it up to experience and be glad you found out now before things became really bad. Stay far away from her.
If she was simply separated, and you were aware, then I again, would have to ask again, why feel bad now?
2007-01-04 16:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll just have to get over it... If you feel THAT awful about it - try not to do it again. BTW, who's Debby, and what is your question exactly?
2007-01-04 16:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel awful? Is the guilt setting in? How could SHE do that? You would have to ask her. People have their own reasons. It's not wrong or right, but we're all human. Although I would never forgive anyone who cheated on me, because that's how I am. Everyone is different. Things happen for a reason.
2007-01-04 16:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should but now leave her alone after u do you really should feel better for making the right decision do the right thing now everyone makes mistakes its a part of life dont beat yourself up too bad
2007-01-04 16:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by trinavanilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know she was married? Yes, how could she have done that to her husband and if she had children.
Or if you knew she was married, you should have ended it.
2007-01-04 16:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
atleast u have come to ur senses...don't commit the same mistake again...move on...go find someone who is unattach and who'll love u for who u are and vice versa...but make sure u tell her of ur past...relationship should be built on trust and honesty...very important factors to make it last a lifetime...
2007-01-04 16:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by willow marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you get married and your wife will date some guy behind your back, then you will feel really awfull
2007-01-04 16:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your saying that you had no idea she was married. Well atleast you feel bad about the affair with her as you should.
2007-01-04 16:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋