Let's say my inlaws (who love my kids but not me) made a family calendar for themselves and put pictures of my husband, themselves and my kids in it. But none of me. Would that be outwardly rude? Or just something overlooked?
Thanks :)
2007-01-04 16:14:50 · 35 answers · asked by 1K 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Most likely it is rude.
But always give benefit of the doubt. Ask. Find out why they seem to have overlooked having you in them.
And even if they were rude, do not stoop down to their level. Be above them. Calmly tell them, "Okay," and just leave. Show them you are not happy with what they did but do not give them more fuel to try and harass you with. Be above them.
2007-01-04 16:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by tobito_abad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....I guess u could look at it both ways....but since u say they don't like u then I would say that it is just them being rude. But at the same time it could just be something that was overlooked. Dont let it stress u too much.
2007-01-04 16:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's somewhat a slap in your face. They may not like that you are married to their son, but they should respect the fact that you are their grand-children's mother. You should have been included in the calendar for the children's sake. It's showing your children that grandma and grandpa don't like mom, and that can cause problems in family dynamic later in life.
2007-01-04 16:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say thats very rude.. I take it your in-laws have a problem with you. Dont worry mine do to. It's also rude of them to exclude you out of their plans but include your kids and your husband. and then they act like they just innocently forgot.
2007-01-04 16:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by honeybear6944 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them,they are pathetic and to focus that energy on improving their selves. But...I bet you wont do it! I dare you! But you'll feel soooo gooood inside .Truthfully,I think "My Higher- Power" put me on this earth just for me to give someone courage in "keepin' it real".I don't keep nothing suppressed inside. I can't keep it in even if I know someones about to kick my @3!,I CANNOT and WILL-NOT do it ! Good luck and I'm just higher than a camel's pus#@ !
(No Disrespect) ok bye!
2007-01-04 16:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be very rude, Excluding you but keeping YOUR own family? Sounds very planned out and scheming to me. Did you talk to your husband about this?
2007-01-04 16:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by rickybrit053 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your husband, He knows this was done on purpose, Its up to him to say some thing its his rude family that so inconsiderate of your feelings. Just bring it out in to the open.......thats such a dirty thing to dooo
2007-01-04 16:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Becky ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rude honey and I would call them on it!!!! That was probably the only reason they made that darn thing. Your husband should have already said something to them about it, too. Go get'em girl!!!
2007-01-04 16:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by thebrandy74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rude.
2007-01-04 16:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Thumper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rude, no question. Very hurtful, too. I cannot even imagine how they could do something like that. Not only rude, but unbelievably tacky!
2007-01-04 16:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋