Why do u stop loving someone you have loved for so long. You didnt separate because of disagreements or fights. It just became stagnant? Why does this happen?
2007-01-04 16:13:49 · 14 answers · asked by love_momo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This has happened to me in nearly every relationship I've been with, unfortunately. I think this is due to the fact that a relationship buds from interest and curiousity -- you want to know more about this person, get to know them, and share yourself with them in turn. Ergo, often once you have discovered what feels like everything you'd ever want to know, the mystery is solved and it looses what made it interesting. Or it can just be that the spark is gone. I think dating someone sometimes tends to be something that is interesting when it starts, but gets boring after awhile. This isn't always true, obviously there wouldn't be long marriages if it was, but I think once people get older and think in a more 'stable' way instead of constantly wanting something new, relationships last longer.
On a similar note, I think it is possible to "fall out of love" with someone, much as it is possible to fall in love with them in the first place. It happens. People change, or something in the relationship changes. Sometimes you realize it's best to stay even if things aren't the same, but usually people just move on. I personally don't believe in 'one true love' for each person. I say just do what makes you happy. Love the one you're with, and if you don't... then it is time to move on. If only it was that easy!
2007-01-04 16:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by Roxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 20:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stagnation in a relationship happens when a partner start being the guru of assumptions and starts seeing the other partner as "Just an extension of themselves and forgets that the other person is also a human being so different from them" It happens because you either conciously or unconciously stop respecting the other person's individuality and want the other person to see and do things your way and having sky high expectations
2007-01-04 16:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so funny that I stumbled upon this question.
I have often wondered the same thing about people that I know. My thoughts are that sometimes you just aren't with the right person even though you think you might be. You can be so happy for a long period of time & then one day you finally realize that there is more out there.
2007-01-04 16:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a couple lets life in general come between them, they drift apart. Slowly, sometimes imperceptively, they both change. Jobs, money, possessions, and even kids can widen the gap. They are no longer number one in each other's lives. Next thing you know, the spark's gone. There's no hate, but there's no love either. Just indifference.
2007-01-05 05:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that sometimes people just grow apart. It is hard work keeping romance in a relationship. If you let things become routine and boring, you can lose the passion.
2007-01-04 16:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person that said that at first the relationship is interesting and you want to know something about them..you always have something to talk about...then there is nothing left to talk about...so you have to do things together, spend time together...let your relationship blaze instead of letting it go out.
2007-01-04 16:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change. People change, and there isn't a lot anyone can do about it. However, the best relationships are the ones that can adapt to change. So, if the relationship ended, chances are that it wasn't ideal to begin with.
2007-01-04 16:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it often happens without even a single fight, we might have been happy, but they weren't and we failed to see it. usually when this happens it is because the object of our love has been seeing another, and when she gives him an ultimatum he is just gone, and when we try to think of the reason we can't find it.
2007-01-04 16:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good marriage is like having a good lawn.
You have to nurture it,weed it of it's problems give it fertilizer to grow.
If not one day you wake up to weeds & there is nothing left of it so you plow it under & start over.
2007-01-04 16:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋