Are you obsessed with anyone? Wether ir be your bf/gf, a friend, a crush, a famous person? I am always obsessed with at least one person and I try to get to know them better and spend time with them or go out with them (if its a girl), try invite them over or get them to do stuff (if its a friend). And then when I look back on the person I was last obsessed with they just seem lame... Is that normal?
2007-01-04 15:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm not obsessed with anybody but I do believe that I'm borderline infatuated with someone.
It's not normal or abnormal to like someone and then realize that they were not worth it; sometimes love can be so blind.
2007-01-04 15:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything and everything that happens to us, or we experience can be normal, ya know? As long as we aren't harming ourselves, or somebody else. Doesn't sound like you are to me.
But, sooner or later, in you're own good time, you'll find, my friend, that what you are seeking is all ready within yourself!
You never had any real need to look elsewhere. And then a whole new world will open of for you.
You are questioning, so you are at the doorway to that world now! Good luck and have fun in life. And don't forget to not take things too seriously, just be. Keep gettin' on out there into the fresh air, once in awhile, too.
Blows all negativity away, and brings in a fresh new breeze!
2007-01-04 15:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by smoothsoullady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, and I am guessing that you are pretty young. Then, I would say that it is pretty normal to become obsessive over one person one day and then another the next. I think that what happens is when one puts a person on a pedestal, like we often do when we are infatuated. Then, we later learn that the person is not flawless as we once thought, and then we are left feeling like what did I actually see in that person. Trust me, when you find your soul-mate you will become obsessed and even when you realize that they are not perfect, you will still admire them, imperfections and all. That is what true love is all about.
2007-01-04 15:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fact, I had same problems when I was very young(such as a pupil, or in my early middle school ages)
As I grew up, I found that I became less easily obsessed with somebody.
So in summary, my answer is, yes, it's normal. It's just like one of those things that one must experience when growing up.
2007-01-04 16:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Wenjie Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsession is unhealthy...
2007-01-04 16:01:51 · answer #5 · answered by GlitznGlamour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Thank God
2007-01-04 15:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2007-01-04 15:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋