i was looking at my breast size, and i was looking through links on google i went here : http://www.afraidtoask.com/breast/breastsize.html
my dad came into my room.
Does he think im a lesbo?
=[[[[[ . what do i do??!?!?!
2007-01-04 15:33:38 · 28 answers · asked by Kailey B 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Tell him you were just trying to find out if you're "normal".
2007-01-04 15:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by huskie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First did he say anything? Second how old are you? Third most girls have some questions about their body's and are apt to explore a bit. I am sure your dad not only knows this but also understands your need to feel attractive. If you show no interest in boys what so ever your dad may slightly be concerned but I doubt it. If he didn't say anything then he didn't want to embarrass you, respect that. If he did use it as an opportunity to tell him how you feel.. it may open the door for some very loving conversation by a father who knows his "baby girl" is growing up.
2007-01-04 23:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Roll_Tide! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt he thinks you are lesbian. He likely doesn't know what to think, since Dad's seldom think about their daughters and sex in the same thought group. If you want, you could explain that you were simply curious- he would understand that to an extent, cause guys get curious to compare equipment as well. If he asks, just explain it that way. Otherwise, just let it drop. It would likely just make him squirm anyway. The other option is to bring it up to your mom,make the explaination and let her handle dear old Dad's squirms. Relax, you just gave him a few grey hairs and aged yourself a few seconds. As parental worries go, this one is way down on the scale- speaking as a parent myself, I think I'd be relieved to hear it was simple curiousity. But I wouldn't exactly lose sleep over the incident.
2007-01-04 23:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by The mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how you reacted when he came in the room- but you could just go out to him and say "Dad I wasn't sure I was wearing the right bra size and goggled sizes to see and I am so embarrassed you came in the room..... could you maybe knock before you come in so that you or I won't feel embarrassed like that again?"
Then it kinda puts it back on him and your need for privacy.
For reference... go to a good bra store- they will measure you and give you a good fit.
2007-01-04 23:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he does then I think he should talk to you about and find out. You could ask him and explain that you were just curious about your breast size.
Also ask him to please knock before coming into your room this is just common courtesy even though it is his house you do deserve for him to respect your privacy
2007-01-04 23:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i have seen way more boobs than i wanna see! ouch! anyway, he is an adult man and more mature than that. those pictures were the kinds youwould normally see in a school text book. I'm sure he was just thinking you are doing some research for yourself or something. Don't worry! you're fine!!!
2007-01-04 23:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by jess l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy I can tell you we are generally freaked out by all that girly stuff (eg periods). If you somehow relate it to your period or birth control or something he will lose all interest. Maybe you can get your mom to help by having her telling him you were looking up some information about your menstral cycle online. He will forget all about it. Trust me.
2007-01-04 23:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would casually make a remark like- 'God this bra is uncomfortable, I think I'll buy a new one when i go to the mall next'
Make it sound like you were thinking out aloud... this should squash any ideas he has that were off target
2007-01-04 23:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by danie_190805 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress - dads are pretty much the most forgiving folks alive...
We love our daughters unconditionally - even though we're pretty uncomfortable about talking 'girly stuff'...
-dh
2007-01-04 23:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LAWL.!! no, he doesn't think you're a lesbo, thank god. just tell him the truth and he will understand if he is considerate.
2007-01-04 23:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by casualnoob123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you were just checking some information out on self examination for lumps and stuff like that....
2007-01-04 23:36:00 · answer #11 · answered by kylesegarra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋