she is 15 and ill be turning 18 on jan 12...she says she loves me and that she has never said that to anyone before (not even her mom) and she also said "im going to be 100% honest here... i want to be your wife, the mother of you children, grown old with you, until death do us part", she said she has also never said that to anyone before and i am sooo amazing...should i take her seriously and trust her?
2007-01-04 15:32:13 · 14 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should think about the law and how you're being manipulated by a child.
2007-01-04 15:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if she is serious or not my young friend. She is a child and has no idea of what the world is like as an adult. You are about to be a legal adult even though you also have a ton of maturing left to do. That is no insult, just a fact of life. So if you are legally an adult and she is a minor, you need to keep away from her in every romantic sense. Not only that, but she sounds kind of loopy too. You cannot trust her-period. Shake her off now or you will regret it - I'd bet my children's college fund on it!
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2007-01-04 23:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that is kind of wierd. Well if you said she never told that to her mother that she loved her it must mean she has family problems. I am not saying not to take her seriously but she is young and so are you, you guys don't know that already. I think she just really wants to be with you and not loose you. But if you don't feel that as much tell her you need a break, to think it all threw. Maybe she needs to meet other people. She's only 15, how can she know if your the only one she could ever love?
2007-01-04 23:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word, 18 y.o. you are soon to be an adult.
let go of the puppy love, puppy love aint worth going to jail over.
her mom gets mad at you, you will be prosecuted and designated as a sex offender. any child u will have after that, the state will take or make you stay away, do you want that?
grow up, be your own person, she may want to move in with you,
thats a negative also. you are turning 18, cut this one lose
and go find someone your own age group 18-24 type thing.
she is too young to know what she wants, be a man and think of yourself. you seem to be considerate and caring, there will be other women out there for you.
dont let this puppy love thing ruin your life.
god bless you and good luck
2007-01-12 05:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by sharma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i was 15 when i started dating my future husband, he was 18 as you are. He was the only guy i was ever with. we got married when i was 19, then i got divorced last year at 26 yrs old. She might love you now, but eventually she is going to wonder, what else is out there. i should have ended my relationship a few years ago, due to alcoholism and verbal abuse, but i thought i was in love with him, turns out, yeah i loved him,but i wasn't "in" love with him, and hadn't been for a long time.She is too young to make these rash decisions that she will soon forget. be careful and good luck
2007-01-04 23:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
considering she's only 15, it's probably a given she hasn't told someone she wants to be their wife/baby mama. she probably honestly believes she wants all of that, but i think she's too young to know for sure, i mean she has her whole life ahead of her shes not even out of highschool..how can she truely know she wants this if she has yet to explore other options. sounds to me like you're her "first love" and the thought of staying with you forever no matter what , sounds much better than having to deal with such a great heartache if things don't work out between the two of you in the future, so shes saying all this stuff to try and make you stay with her
2007-01-04 23:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't have sex with her and get yourself into a potentially terrible situation. 15 is a bit young to be in love forever, but stranger things have happened. Be careful and treat her with respect! I'm four years younger than my boyfriend (I'm 19 and he's 23) and things work out fine for us; neither one of us have ever been more in love. Good luck!
2007-01-04 23:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try it out. if she really says that, she means it. girls will only go at u other wise for money and attention. if she's only 15, it's way to early. my bf and i r 14 and 15. we're 6 months apart ... on the day ..... and we have already told each other that but we won't be getting to the point of saying that for at least 5 or so years. we care aout each other and if u say that u want.... look, it really depends on if u want this girl as ur wife or not.
2007-01-04 23:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by kat jo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it, she's TOO young to know what she is talking about!
At 15 life is just beginning! She needs to "play the field" first, not get married right off!
2007-01-04 23:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's her home life like, she's never told her Mom that she loves her? OK, that's no good, maybe she's searching for a way out of her home and the only way she thinks she can escape is by finding a man???
2007-01-04 23:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋