Hello, I need advice on something that is really bothering me and that can't talk about openly. What is happening is that I went out with this girl that had just broken up with her boyfriend, and I only lasted about a month with her and then broke up. Everything went fine, we were both alright with it. The problem comes when her ex-boyfriend (now boyfriend again) shows up at my soccer practice one afternoon to "visit" some of his old friends (he dropped out of school since last year). A supposed friend of mine told him that I was the one who took his girl away from him, so he came up with me and told me that if I ever got close to her again he would kick my ***, then I told him to basically go to hell.
That's done and no fight came out of it, but the thing is that now I'm not feeling safe. This guy besides known for doing drugs, dropping out of school, and being a total disaster, is also known for being very violent.
2007-01-04 15:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by Namas yo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
last year he knocked someone out with a baseball bat and sent him to the hospital for three days in comma state and some more time recovering. I don't know what to do since I have seen him in Walmart and other parts of town. I don't know if I'm scared or what but don't want to even see him around. What am I to do? Please help!
2007-01-04 15:28:14 · update #1
Please if you can't give a nice answer, don't answer at all. Quit making me feel worse than I already do!
2007-01-04 15:32:50 · update #2
Oh, I'm not interested in the girl at all, not because of that but because I simply stopped liking her. She was the one who looked for me, then things went wrong and I dumped her.
2007-01-04 15:39:36 · update #3
Well, if he doesn't bother you anymore, don't worry about it. If he continues...arm yourself.
2007-01-04 15:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can u fight if u cant learn
depending on how long ago the threat was hes probably not gonna do anything
if it was a week or less watch ur back
if it was like a month ago then dont worry cause if he wanted to fight u he would have found u
but if it was less than a week ago dont travel alone keep atleast 1 friend with if possible have 2 or 3 with u
and if u do end up in a fight with him make sure he is the one who starts it (so if the cops get u then u can say self defense)
as far as the fight u could end it quick by kickin between the legs and when he bends down knee to the face
or just throw punches like crazy if he doesnt have a chance to throw any then he cant hit u
good luck and as far as the girl goes pursue it with caution
also if u see him with a bat get ur *** away from there dont try to take him on
also dont ever bring anything to a fight that u cant eat cause u dont wanna take the chance he might get it from u
2007-01-04 23:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Sure, be cautious, don't ask for trouble (like, being alone in a dark alley at nite). But unless he makes another threat, he was probably just keeping up his tough guy image. If you're not trying for the girl anymore, I don't see why he'd have any more reason to come after you.
It's still probably a good idea to make sure atleast a few people know what's up. Find a close friend who you can tell "Hey, Ex said such-n-such the other day. I know probably nothing is going to come of it, but still, it'd be cool if you had my back."
2007-01-05 00:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by a dear abbey of sorts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Namas,
There is an old saying that the "rebound" date is never true love but usually payback or spent emotion. I honestly hope you do not want to go back out with her again for dumping you & going back with him. No need to be mad or angry but tell the rumor squad you are not the one that took her she came to you and you are happy they are together. Take it as a lesson & move on. Sounds like he will be too messed up to remember to mess with you before he ends up in trouble again!
Be strong but take this chance to find someone TOTALLY different in different activities you like and ask to movies & dinner and become friends before intimacy. You'll see, you are the better person, thats obvious because you are concerned for a person that is obviously headed for trouble!
Be good & enjoy your school years, they end & bills & job stress will satart real soon! God Speed & PEACE in 2007!!!
2007-01-04 23:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by bSquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell somebody about it. Talk to a teacher that you feel comfortable around, or tell any adult that you can rely on. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about, but i would tell somebody just in case. It's better to have some back-up (even if they're teachers) than no back-up. hope everything turns out ok for you.
2007-01-04 23:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by emt2beme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up to the bully, kick him in the nuts right off the bat.
2007-01-04 23:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he actually starts stalking you don't worry. He got her back and if she chose him over you she wasn't the GF for you.
2007-01-04 23:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd get yourself strapped with a 9...and if that mofugger gives you any sh it, smoke his as s ..
2007-01-04 23:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend is wanting attention just spend more time talking to her
2007-01-04 23:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ajani M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋