I have never had an virtual close friend.I help them zealously when they meet with difficulties but all the things I receive from them are betrayal or taking advantage of me.Besides,when I meet with difficulties ,they seem to not want to help.What should I do now?
2007-01-04 15:24:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey
I've been in ur position before...
The truth is, it is harder to find close friends to bond with as people get older and learn to think of themselves first... well, for me, it is...
Just continue being the good person that you are, ppl actually do like u for who u are, and if or when u leave, they will see it... don't change juz because ppl are taking advantage of you, there are many other ppl out there who would love to meet a friend like you... and ppl are put in different places of the world for a reason....
This world is a huge place, you never know who you can meet in the next second... ^-*
Good luck...! & dun worry abt it too much, cuz every minute you spend thinking abt it is a minute not spent on smiling... =p
~*hugz*~
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2007-01-04 15:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel you can help somebody by giving your opinion then do it and if you need advice on a problem you have then ask . of all the thousands of people on the net you should be able to find some body to have a conversation with. try to IM people or if you recieve a funny joke or intresting e-mail foward it to abunch of people.. try online games that you compete agenst somebody else on line. try getting involved in activities out side of the computer;like sports or cars or dirtbikes.or start a band.take up and instrament talk about things you like to do as well as give your opinion when asked for help.
2007-01-04 15:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by oldcars12002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance yourself or drop them. If they're not being good friends, they're not worth being around. Keep trying. Not everyone is a bad friend. When you find someone dont get attached real fast, and help them out in minors ways, in ways that wont hurt you. If you see signs of them being another "bad" friend... then you just move on.
2007-01-04 15:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be independent. Trust yourself. Pray to God. Talk to your family. Find some friends but do not trust them entirely. Take time to know them more before consider them as true close friends...
2007-01-04 15:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by Skarekrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware of on line friendships. people act differently when they can hide behind their computers. Get into the real world and be cautious because people can be selfish and only care about themselves.
2007-01-04 15:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being virtual friends and join a real life club that interest you.
2007-01-04 15:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop the people who is not friendly
2007-01-04 15:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋