my boyfriend had a baby with this woman about 2 years ago...the baby was a result of a one night stand he started seeing me after being just my best friend for about 6 months..she just went crazy she broke into our house stole my id, social security card, our cell phones cut all the phone lines behind the face plates we had gallons of drinking water in our house she put bleach in the water, and turned the stove on just so the gas was pouring out ( Imagine if we had lit a match ) & forged his name on checks/ custody papers she also called the police and made it look like he broke into her house we decided we needed to move out of state to get away
he hasnt seen or talked to her or the baby in a year, she is getting child support she wants him to see the baby, she said she has to know where he lives/moves to because of child support purposes is this true? does he have to pay child support if she took the baby from him & he will never see it again?
2007-01-04 15:05:46 · 2 answers · asked by xhust1er_honeyx 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
The first poster is correct. He is legally obligated to support his child whether he exercises his rights to visitation or not. She is also correct in stating that she has NO BUSINESS to know where he lives or works--as long as he keeps paying there is no reason for her to know. (I say this because some agencies include both addresses on any legal documents they send out in regards to the order. Make sure your address is XXXXXX out!
I hope there are police reports on what she did. Take (or send) those papers into your child support agency (where the order originated) and ask for an order of privacy protection--under NO circumstances should they release your address to her. If she needs to contact you--she can do it through the child support agency. You can also consider getting a PO Box for any mail from her and an unlisted phone number. He can get/use a cell if he gets calls from her or needs to call her.
Good Luck!
2007-01-06 13:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cherie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a VERY sad story. My nephew has a similar situation. She left the state saying she was coming back in two weeks....she never came back. That was 10 months ago. Thanks to her parents he actually got to visit his daughter last week!
How is the child support being paid? Through the courts? Or is he sending it? The first question about her wanting to know where you live....the answer is no. If she is getting her support she has no reason to know where he lives. If the courts get involved and ask then he has to tell them. Does he still have to pay child support even though he does not get to visit her? Yes, no matter what he is legally obligated to support that child.
If all you say is true, if you have police reports etc. why doesn't he sue for custody? Can you imagine what kind of life that poor child has? It's really sad when these things happen. Good luck to you both.
BTW: I am in CA
2007-01-04 15:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋